Girl! Have you got some reading to do... ;)
There are some great authors on here. I will dig out one of my tutorial post to help you with creating your articles(not saying you need it, but as you are a new user, I think it may help). It is a great community and all it asks is respect and a donation from any post that you tag with @familyprotection. Helpful, useful, informative, heartfelt posts are all very well rewarded, so a donation from the pay-out is only fair. I only mention this because it is a bit of a hot topic atm and I wouldn't want you tripping at the first.