Government helping with CPS mistakes? Forget it.. They are there to ruin you!

At a certain time several years ago, while we still lived in Holland, we discovered our whole network in the house was hacked. I don't want to go to deep into that part now, but let me assure you (as my boyfriend has been an IT specialist for many years) that it was not the usual hacking party we are talking about. Probably the network (including the one from his company) had been hacked for at least a year by the time we discovered it by thinking back on when the problems started. One device after another stopped working, just out of the blue. One moment this was the problem, the next it was another. They made sure (the ones responsible for this) we could not type one decent letter, or dive into the evidence documents by using a computer, and later on every single telephone did the same. Many processes running behind the scenes, that my boyfriend discovered and collected the evidence from, but nothing worked. He found out how it was done eventually, but by then it was too late, court hearings had been done, and we lost the house already. This did not make our lives easier at that time.

We were desperate at a certain point, as there should be a way to make that somebody in a higher rank should tell CPS that they had to do what's best for the children, right? I did not know what to do anymore, I felt so invaded in my privacy, as every thing we did in the house was monitored. Sometimes we would talk of a plan, and the next day my ex reacted on this on forehand without anyone telling him about our plans. We only discussed in the house, that little part of your life that should be your own private space where you can talk freely to each other. Well, we could't, even the camera's we hang up for safety monitoring inside the house because I was scared of my ex, were hacked. They could listen to and see everything in the house for all that time.

As none of my devices worked anymore, and I wanted to write a cry for help to a person that may help, I decided just to start writing by hand then. Not the easiest thing to do as it was already a long and complicated story at that moment in time dealing with the flaws of CPS. But some people told me that it could be helping to contact the person "running" the country.. I don't want to write his name here, but I guess you know which higher rank I talk about now. I had a letter from almost 40 pages, handwritten with the story summarized. It was not an easy task let me tell you. But I thought it was my only way to maybe get some help, as this person may tell CPS and social work etc to dive into the evidence by now, instead of handling the case like they had been doing until now.

I counted the points of their mistakes before I sent it, and I had over 100 mistakes with big impact that CPS had already made by then. (This became much more after this period!) And I hoped it would maybe help us not to loose the house the next weeks. But unfortunately we got a reply from a minister after we had already been evicted. The only good thing that came out of me writing the letter, was one warning that he gave me on the phone. To make sure that we were living somewhere official in the city administration. Because if they would mark us as "homeless" for a certain period, it would be very very difficult to receive help from the government.

We lost contact, as our documents on the telephones got stolen in the period staying at a family members house for some weeks. In this period they did very horrible things to us, and this is a period I rather not think about too much, as it is very invading to my privacy and still give me a sense of fear while I think about it again. Let's say that the least thing that happened there was them stealing our important documents and notes, other things were 1000 times worse and scarier.

At the time I had found another house (not ideal) where I could not stay with 2 persons due to the city administration, the owner told me he didn't mind if we did, as long as it was not official. But as I was pregnant and the stalking activities were at such a high level, that I was scared to death in nighttime, so we decided that I should rent it anyway. It was winter, and either that or staying on the streets. You decide what's the best option.. this horrible house or the streets. This was the best of 2 horror options. Then the things started to get nasty with the government. They said I could only be on the welfare payments, because I could only live there alone officially, but they would help us in this way: they payment would be for a family instead of single. And normally people would be happy with this news, because ok, the money will be fine, there shouldn't be a problem anymore right?

Wrong! This was one of the most nasty things our government did to us at the department that arranges welfare, because if we hadn't been warned by that minister about 6 months before, we would have not had these red flags rising. My boyfriend went to the registration office to ask what to do, and the lady said, this will mean you will be cut out of the system here, and you will be marked as "address unknown" and this means you will have no rights anymore on what ever you want to ask from the government. And then she waited until her colleagues were all gone, and nobody was around her desk anymore.. She whispered to my boyfriend: "Just go to the internet page, describe yourself at that address, until the time they will find out it is not in order with the rules of the amount of people living there, you found something new probably." And so we did, we did what she told us, and never gave a respond to the welfare lady about what she had written as if it was a favor to us. We knew their plan by then, and I could see hundreds of visits on our website every day coming from government departments like theirs, to monitor if we weren't spreading the word as we told them we would a few weeks earlier. They knew we had the evidence of all their mistakes, and they were afraid of us becoming whistle-blowers.

Their solution was: get him out of the system. I was about 7 months pregnant at the time, if I was single and my boyfriend would be cut out of the system, I would become in trouble too by finding a house to rent. Because I was too scared to stay home alone due to the stalking activities, and I was not safe there either. I had many houses where I responded on spread through the whole country, but it were all houses where 2-3 persons should live. If I was to be single with a baby, they would reject me due to the missing papers and some other family would get it. As the house where we lived was not suitable for a child (only the first months was doable) CPS would have instantly interfered and taken our baby. This whole thing got to that higher levels that they were really trying to destroy us on every level they could. I was really glad we saw through this, and I never let them know that I knew they were monitoring us to see if we were whistle-blowing their mistakes.. But It made me realize this is a game we can never win, they will destroy every single human being standing in their way.

I actually think I should have never written the letter to that person in the first place, but at that time I tried to do what seemed best to me. But in reality I guess it even made the government interfere worse in our case. They silenced me for a long period, because the techniques they used to scare us were those you don't wish for your worst enemies. This is one of the things that made me realize the government isn't there to help those in need when it comes to the mistakes of CPS, as they benefit from their mistakes the most. They are eventually the ones that are the master plan behind CPS, I guess. This is why they try to get you in financial problems to after you leave to a government women's shelter (see my last post). If they were there to correct the mistakes of CPS, they would have done something to help us after sending the letter, and would make sure the police would be on top of it too, as there was enough evidence against all these horrible persons that tried to ruin our lives.

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I did not speak up about what happened online for several years, afraid of what might happen when I did. But I am glad now I can use the blockchain, every thing will be on here forever, with many witnesses.

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Behind the scenes I am preparing to come out with some more horrible things that have been done to us, some even to harm our baby daughter. Everything that I've told has just been a tip of the iceberg yet.
Thank you for reading my post.

AnoukNox

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I write a lot about my period dealing with CPS, feel free to read my stories linked in this posy below.
Let's not be silenced anymore, and gather our strength, thanks for reading this little part of my story..

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My previous posts

Introduction of Anouk Nox

An introduction of Anouk Nox, I will not be silenced anymore! This year I will make a difference!

About Poverty

Bad parent's live in poverty? CPS should have a look in the women's shelters

About custody

My ex filed for custody and CPS dit not tell me this

About being homeless

I was homeless a few year ago

How to get back your inner strength (part 2 from my story)

About domestic violence

Why you should always report domestic violence if you see this happening

How the police let me down from the first time I called them for help

The first days in a women's shelter with my 2 oldest kids, fled for their violent dad

How my kids and I fled to a women's shelter for their violent dad

About the narcissistic / psychopathic games my ex played

My ex made me believe his stepfather was sexually abusing my 2 oldest children

Tips dealing with CPS / youth care / government agencies

How I learned to speak up when disagreeing with social workers / CPS workers

Some very useful tips for when you have to deal with CPS (lessons I learned the hard way P1 - Documentations)

Useful tips P.2 : The importance of independent professionals (such as psychologists)

Open letters series by Anouk Nox

Open letter to my oldest daughter, who I haven't seen in 2 years

Feelings, thoughts and things on my mind

Tears seem to be endless today, missing my 2 oldest kids

To vaccinate or not to vaccinate