dear brother, your concern is correct, the main issue is our education + our grooming at home. no one will ever guide you enhance whats best inside you. there is no consular in our school who can guide us what best in our self. the only criteria of judgement is score card. no matter how how you score . if your score is high you will be welcomed in colleges as well in professional institutes. lets pledge to our self, we will not forward this problem to our children and fix the environment. God be with you :). best wishes