Lovely write up dear.
Sex before marriage is now a trend in today's society, it's now the new normal. I might sound old school but I'm someone who believes that sex shouldn't be done outside the marital bed. I guess my belief is being attached to my religious view and the upbringing I have.
Nevertheless I don't have a problem with anyone having sex before marriage, staying away from premarital sex or not is a personal decision that I think everyone have the right to choose.