RE: Why We Are Scared of Removing Fear and How Do We Remove Them?
Hey, thanks for the mention, and I enjoy seeing how you grow day by day, step by step, no matter how small they are.
I kinda resonated with the first "poison", on who we will become when the fear is gone. I like to think "better" as the key focus? Sure, in the process of becoming braver, will you get over confident, cocky and start behaving like a dick (*ahem like me sometimes? ;))? Maybe. But at the same time, if also think the years you had been living in the shadows had trained to read other's emotions better, and developed in you a sense of self-reflection and self-regulation.
And the truth is, fear will never be 100% removed. If you speak to lots of motivational speakers and performers, they will tell you that they still get the butterflies in their stomach before every performance. That doesn't stop them for putting on a good show, though. As a matter of fact, that fear is the drive they needed to perform well, making them the celebrities that they are.
Dance with your fear in a dance of tango,
But know that you're the one leading the show.
I agree, you need to learn how to live with them, otherwise you will get stuck, you have to advance along them, but first you need to know them and accept them
Live with your fear and turn them into your strengths :)
Thank you for reading and comment @jorgedr0id
Hey @maverickfoo, I think you are right. Fear will not and should not be 100% removed. Living life without fear will be reckless and dangerous, for me.
When the fear is gone, definitely you'll behave differently. Whether good or bad. Of course, you wanna change in a good way. For your case, you're uncertain how you'll change for the better, is it?
Woo hoo, I love this ;)