RE: Is Home-schooling more beneficial to our children than traditional education?
What a fantastic defense of homeschooling. I think you touched on so many of the benefits that homeschooling, done right, bring to the student. We have homeschooled and all of what you brought forward were important considerations in our decision. Protection from harm as well as the damaging influences of children with different values and morals. A customized curriculum for each student's needs rather than forcing round pegs in square holes. And the love that a parent can give that teachers can't match. Sadly, as home schooled students are gaining recognition in their academic successes as well as their manners and social excellence, the home school movement has become trendy. While not needing a degree to teach at home, the parents do need to be committed to what is a very hard job. It is not easy. It is not simply having your kids stay home. We know many people whose primary motivation is protection from wicked influences, but don't put the enormous time and energy into disciplining their students to learn, and providing valuable instruction. The result seems to be well behaved children who do not participate as readily in worldly behaviors, but who are uneducated from an academic standpoint and haven't learned how to learn. We will always support homeschooling... done right, and hope that the new crop of trendy home school graduates who do NOT excel academically don't cast a shadow on the practice of home schools as the false accusation of poor socialization tried and continues to try to do.
@drwillwho, home schooling is more better way to achieving knowledge the real life for every growing children, by home schooling a children make effective realization in his mind,,, @crazymumzysa
I am in full agreement with you... assuming that the family is dedicated to actually doing it. We have poured ourselves into our children and their education, and now that we're getting the first 5 to college age, we are thrilled that not only are they people we love to be around, and that others seem to love being around.. but their entrance exams have been excellent and they are continuing their education outside the home at college and being competitive. We hope that means we did ok. However, we are surrounded by folks who basically kept their kids at home, but didn't put much effort into the education portion, and their kids are not able to excel in college, are having problems at their jobs, etc... That's why I have become a proponent of enthusiastically supporting homeschooling done correctly (which varies from family to family, and may only distinguish itself as being different to homeschooling done incorrectly, which basically means not even meeting the dismal educational standards of our public schools).
Excellent!
Very wise words drwillwho, thank you for your reply. Homeshooling done right can only take place if parents realize their limitations and act upon it by calling on professionals to help, especially with certain subject like Math, Science and Accounting. it is also very important to get home-schooled children involved in as many extra mural activities and community projects as possible to help with social skills and team work.