I'm with you there. I didn't go to my college graduation either, or to the reunions - icky! And yes, one off rituals I've certainly done. Haha yes indeed - why do it again if it worked! I think rituals like that are nice to wrap your head around something - it's clearing space to think and process yourself, in my view, rather than the actual act or the repetition of it. I guess at times in our lives we have more need for rituals than others.