I believe that one needs to reflect and create their own code of honor. Our initial definition of honorable is imprinted on us by our family, community, and culture. However, if one never reflects on and questions these beliefs, the status quo (current state of affairs) will remain along with the accompanying social injustices.

Self-sacrifice is often used in connection with those who shed light on and work to change social injustices. Yes, many have given their lives, suffered personal harm, and given up their freedom to make positive changes in the world. Many would say they paid a high cost to do what is right. While this is true, I would argue that the bigger cost would have been personal to them if they didn’t act.

We all must live first and foremost with ourselves. So, in that sense they are not giving up their personal interests in pursuit of a cause. Instead they are following their heart. I think this is best summed up by the song “The Impossible Dream (The Quest)” made popular by the musical, Man of LaMancha.

Here is my favorite version of the song by Frank Sinatra.