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RE: I Need Help!!!
Thank you for your advice , I appreciate it alot. :) But I need the phone so I could socialize with my friends cuz in school I just felt lonely.
Thank you for your advice , I appreciate it alot. :) But I need the phone so I could socialize with my friends cuz in school I just felt lonely.
you have internet ? and your friends know where you live ? If they really are your friends, they will find you, if they dont find you they are not your friends ... forget them. Try to go to vacation somewhere - a youth-camp or with some close frieds out to camping and relax a few weeks - and after it things will look very different .. how about helping with many othr young people cleaning our oceans ? and make a video of it .. you find that long-haired guy Bojan Slat on Twitter - The Ocean clean up - they always need help - tell your parents you go and do something useful for nature, the planet and your own mind and when you come back - you sit down and talk but now you need distance -- and trust me - you will meet a lot of people in your life but only a few will become your friends - feeling lonely is a state of your mind and not of how many people are around you. Contact Bojan and you will see: The ocean heals everything ;-) https://www.theoceancleanup.com
Ok, I will try to learn from your advice.
you are a very polite guy ;-) In 10 years maybe you would "learn from advice" - not today and not your age. I know very well, I was your age too. And I was a very insubordinated specimen even in an age where youth itself was on the war-path. As I said I was kicked out of school, had my fights with everything and everybody and finally went to explore the world, with nothing than a little savings and a passport. Finally I became a journalist to finance my trips and adventures and very late, when I reached an age where others already have a house and family, I finished school and went to university .. the only trick is - listen to yourself and not to your friends or family. Never depend on them, its like drugs - once you are involved you never can get out again, you are a part of the system and melt into it .. This is why I told you to spend summer-vacation on one of the Ocean-Cleanings-Boats- a lot of young people do it because you see your own future - wasted and collapsing oceans, dieing animals and for what ? For endless growing consuming until the planet collapses. If nothing happens to you you will live another 7o or more years and THIS will be your future - overpopulation, pollution, war for clean water instead of oil - this will dictate your whole live, not a fucking phone ... what you need to survive beside a lot of luck? Education, there your parents are right- 50 % of all jobs of the next 20 years will be replaced by robots, people without higher education will hardly find a job anymore ! You need experience and must see with your own eyes what is going on on this planet - fuck the media ! - and you need new acquaintances outside your small local circle - and your parents can hardly refuse your trip if you tell them its an environment-cleaning-project ;-)
As far as I know Bojan also kicked school as a teenager to start the Ocean cleaning project and now its a real great working project. 6 or 8 weeks on the ocean together with a lot of international people around your age might bring you closer to yourself - today, not in 10 years. And never forget : you NEVER learn from advices - only from own experiences. If you feel an opposition when getting advice - yes, thats experience, thats when you start thinking yourself and not depending on anybody, not ony our friends, your family or me- good luck !
Thx ,@weirat.