Tips & Tricks to using the female psyche in your advantage, and becoming a better you

Women can be really confusing, as every man already knows. One moment they are as happy as can be, completely filled with love for you. Then something unremarkable happens and suddenly her mood has completely switched up on you. The good times are over, and now you’re just sitting there thinking about how to get this situation under control.

Worry no more, for I am going to teach you a couple of tricks to make her stick with you longer and make sure that you stay in her mind for a lot longer than she stays in yours. Interested? Read along my friend.

First off, let me tell you that women’s brains work completely different than ours. While men are visually oriented, women are more focused on experiences and emotions. While men focus on the goal, women care more about the journey and how they felt during the adventure. This is crucial to understand, because now you will understand why your approaches with women don’t work as good as you expected.
For example, let’s say that she is mad at you and you went and bought flowers to calm her down. You give her the flowers, tell her you like her and ask her to calm down. Sounds simple, right? She’ll understand that.

That’s where you’re wrong pal, it doesn’t work this way with women. Instead of seeing a huge gesture from your part, they immediately see everything that is wrong with the situation. Instead of focusing on the good things, like your kinds words and nice gift, they focus on what you did and that you are trying to patch things up with a(cheap) gift. Do you see where I’m going at here?

You have to approach women from a different angle if you want to get the upper hand. Women want strong, independent men. They want someone that can tell them that they are exaggerating, instead of someone who agrees with her anger and tries to patch things up with flowers. By being nice and buying her flowers, all you do is put yourself underneath her and make her the ‘boss’ in the relationship. And that is exactly what you want to avoid.

So remember, don’t treat her like you treat (male) friends, but treat her like a woman. And keep in mind that to get a woman, you must be a real alpha male

Now that is one thing, but there’s more to learn than just that. Let’s say that you like a girl, and you’re texting her regularly but you feel that you’re kind of losing her. You see, you may text only 1 or 2 girls at a time, but for women, it’s a completely different story. Women are used to getting tons of messages from a lot of different types of guys since they started dating and seeing men. You have to understand that you have a lot of competition, and if you want to succeed, you’ll have to be special.

This is why a clingy but really sweet guy will have zero chances of getting a girl, while a cold asshole will have them at hello. It’s all about the female psyche. You see an asshole(which he is), but they see a strong man that doesn’t work for anyone but himself. He does things for his own interest, not for anyone else’s. Do you see what I am trying to tell you? You have to be available but just not enough for her, that will keep her chasing and leave her really interested in you.

Now for the tips & tricks, let me sum some up for the end of this article:

• When you guys are texting and it is getting heated, start answering more slowly. This will leave her hanging on a cliffhanger, and she will start to wonder how come you’re suddenly answering more slowly, if she did anything wrong, why you’re doing that, etcetera. It doesn’t matter if she thinks badly of you or not, all that matters is that you’re on her mind. The more she thinks and wonders about you, the closer you are to her heart. And that is why an asshole is more successful than a clingy guy. With a clingy guy she doesn’t have to do anything, because the guy already does everything for her. So she’ll get bored and that’s where the asshole comes in and just steals your girl. See where I’m getting at?

• Another trick, if you want her to be a lot more interested in you thanks to 1 move, this is it. Instead of answering more slowly, next time just leave her hanging in the middle of the conversation for 24 hours. It’s that simple, just ignore her completely for 1 full day and then come back and act like nothing happened. You’ll feel really liberated, and she’ll be trapped in your game. She’ll have wondered about you during the whole day, while you can do whatever you want that day and not care about her at all. Because remember, the one that isn’t in control in the relationship, is the one that cares too much about it. If you care less than her, you’re officially in control. It’s that simple.

• Third tip, this one is for when you have a first date. Make sure that you take her to an interesting place with a lot of excitement. The more excitement, the better. This is because bonding takes place when women get emotionally excited. Now, I’m not saying that you have to take her to a rollercoaster for the first date, but make sure that the date is exciting and that you guys move to a lot of places. That’s the third and a half tip, because the more places you guys visit, the memories she’ll have of you. And more memories, means more for her to think about, and that’ll leave her wanting more. See where I’m getting at?

• And lastly, make sure that you’re always yourself when you’re with a girl. Women can smell wannabe’s and posers from miles away. If you try to act extra manly, you’ll just come off as insecure. If you try to be extra sweet for her, she’ll just see that as a weakness and she’ll probably take advantage of it, just to leave you rotting afterwards. Don’t be foolish guys, make sure you’re the one in control.

Alright I’m through with my quick tips & tricks to upgrade your game with women. If you guys have any questions or want to suggest topics you want me to discuss, don’t hesitate to message me.

Oh and one more thing, remember this guys. Life is a game, and it’s easy. Don’t take it too seriously or you’ll end up missing all the fun. Women understand that, and you better understand it too. The more fun you have, the more people want to hang out with you. This is another reason why popular people have more friends, simply because they are more fun to be with than people that are down and depressing. Remember that.

Peace out,

Ludy