Dag Nabbit, Carl! That is stupendously grreat advice! Of course I should have realized - how is anyone going to find me, otherwise? That's the best thing I've learned so far. But then how did YOU find my little whiny story? Just Kidding.
Thanks so much for taking the time to explain such an inportant thing. Now I know that it might not be what I'm writing - but where I'm placing it.
Cheers! BTW: Yeah, the story is true but the mom had a good life in the end and the dad wouldn't talk to me - till I presented myself on his doorstep so I could look him in the eye.!