Do You Have a Nagging Voice Inside Your Head?

This is the voice that we are all familiar with. The voice that doesn't leave you alone one bit. It becomes stronger especially in difficult situations when you need comfort and love the most. It constantly says you will never mount to anything and you have failed to get what you actually want.

This voice pressures you in times that you mostly need support and keeps adding to your pain. If you allow this nagging voice to continue to have control over you, it will rein over your mind and like a dictator, tells you what you should and should not do in every situation of your life and does it with a condescending voice. There comes a time that this voice makes you vulnerable towards the judgments of others and in addition to your own nagging voice, you have other people's voices inside your head telling you what to do and keep reminding your failures and shortcomings. This sounds like a nightmare, but it happens.

There is Nothing Wrong with You

In times like this, it is important to remember that there is nothing wrong with you and you are on this Earth to learn and better yourself. Remind yourself that those who judge you are full of shortcomings themselves. When a specific person judges you, think deeply about what might be wrong with their life and know that this person too has shortcomings and have experiences failures as well. There is no way that you could find someone that haven't gone went through some type of disappointment in their life. Thinking about this, will make you feel better, and when you are exposed to a group of judgmental people who underestimate you, you better answer and point out their own faults so that you remove their nagging voice in your mind later otherwise this will keep happening until you stand up for yourself.

Don't be their puppet

If you don't respond to them, you will regret it. Remember that these people don't value you and don't want you to succeed, so giving them a slightest bit of attention, will give them power over you and they use it against you to damage you in order to feel better about themselves and forget their failures. If you allow them, they will drain your energy with their toxic attitude towards you and they get your positive energy for themselves and instead give back negative energy. These people are energy vampires.

Judgmental People=Energy Vampires

When there is someone around you who sucks your energy with their condescending words, you have to free yourself immediately from their grip, otherwise little by little you will become like them. You will become a sucker yourself and there will only be left with the memory of who used to be.

Dealing With Trust Issues

It will make you have trust issues, because you always think less of other people and try to find something wrong with them, an excuse not to open yourself to love and being vulnerable, instead you create a wall.