Every stories got two (2) sides, I'm here shortly to tell you a nugget about my own story... The lady that we about to get married now.. We met somwhere in Lagos here, we became friends and along the line i felt she's not my type of girl because she's just to quite, she's doesn't mingle in all let me just say socialisation back then was her problem.

So and i use to be the rookie kind of guy, I'm sure from my looks you can tell. Most of my hommies then always advice me that segun you can't date such a girl cos she's going to drop your reputation and give a kind of dulling life which i less expected. As a man you shouldn't let anyone decide how you will live a good life, out of five (5) of us , it was just one who got the eyes that sees not the eyes that looks. he kept on telling me Segun, This babe is actually meant for you..hot and hot can't go together, like poles repels and unlike poles attract, meaning if she is also is living a funky life, there might be issues along the way.

And trust me before then, i had almost wanted to disengage the friendship with her, I looked her and her ways i see she's kind of girl that can add value to me not just being a liability.. I made up my mind i took her on a date where is just table for 2. I ordered for a chilled Chapman cos she's not really the Alcohol type, we sat down at the pavement in just in front of lagoon where we enjoyed the sea breeze.

I asked her out, not knowing she was waiting for me all along to do that, because of the affection we have for each other after a long time of friendship she couldn't turn me down. But she made a statement that she has given herself a time bound that if i didn't do what is right at that very moment by asking her out for a relationship, she would probably move on and accept that maybe i don't like her. but fortunately enough i did the right thing and the right time.

After Three(3) solid year of relationship, I have never for once have a regret of asking her out 3years ago. even those friends who was telling me to let her go are now very happy with me that i made the right choice and that is good to let no man determine your happiness for you in life.

CONCLUSION ; If i had let her go then, i'm sure it will be very difficult for me to find such a perfect woman that will suit me, and also i had listened to some of my friends ideas without rethinking i'd have lost it. but thank God she's here now and she's the best thing that will ever happen to me.....

Thank you for reading through!

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