The Personal Evolutionary Process

As I mentioned before, I believe that life consists of enormous number of choices that come at us and that each decision we make has consequences, so the quality of our lives depends on the quality of the decisions we make.

正如我从前提到过的，我相信，人生由无数的选择构成，而我们所做的每一个决定都会有相应的结果，我们生命的质量取决于我们所做出的决定质量。

We aren't born with the ability to make good decisions; we learn it. We all start off as children with others, typically parents, directing us. But, as we get older, we increasingly make our own choices. We choose what we are going after (i.e., our goals), which influences our directions. For example, if you want to be a doctor, you go to med school; if you want to have a family, you find a mate; and so on. As we move toward our goals, we encounter problems, make mistakes, and run into personal weaknesses. Above all else, how we choose to approach these impediments determines how fast we move toward our goals.

我们不是生来就有能力做决定的，我们需要学习怎么做决定。我们在孩子的时候就开始了学习，在他人的陪伴指导下，特别是父母。然而，随着我们长大，我们需要为自己做决定。 我们选择我们追寻的目标，它影响着我们的决定。李如，如果你想成为一个医生，你需要去共读医学院；如果你想组建家庭，你需要一个伴侣；诸如此类。实现我们目标的过程中，我们会遭遇挫折，会犯错，会发现自己的弱点。而首要的是，选择如何应对这些困难决定了我们实现目标的速度。

Of course it is true that people are born with differences in their various innate abilities. However, judgment is primarily learned.

当然，人们生来就在各种能力上有巨大的差异，而判断力是基本可以靠学习获得的。

I believe that the way we make our dreams into reality is by constantly engaging with reality in pursuit of our dreams and by using these encounters to learn more about reality itself and how to interact with it in order to get what we want - and that if we do this with determination, we almost certainly will be successful. In short.

我相信我们实现自己梦想的方式是，通过不断积极参与到现实世界追寻我们的梦想，利用挫折本身来学习更多的现实世界，学习怎样与之互动才能得到我们想要的 - 如果我们下定决心去做，我们都会都会成功。简而言之。

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