When you get in touch with more people, you'll realize that anyone who is good-tempered and speaks steadily must not be offended.
In the journey of life, we will meet with all kinds of people, each person is like a star in the night sky, emitting a unique light. And when we come into contact with more and more people, we will gradually find an interesting and worth thinking about the phenomenon: those who are good-tempered, speak steadily, usually do not reveal the sharpness of the people, often have more than ordinary people's city, can not be offended.
Being good-tempered is the first layer of their disguise. In their daily life, they always show their gentle attitude, as if nothing can provoke them. Whether they are facing others' misunderstanding, unwarranted accusations, or frustrations and difficulties in life, they can keep calm and do not lose their temper easily. This good temper is not a sign of weakness, on the contrary, it is a symbol of inner strength. They know very well that losing their temper does not solve the problem, but will make things worse. Therefore, they choose to respond to everything with reason and patience, resolving conflicts in a subtle way. Just like a babbling brook, they seem to be soft, but they can cut through stubborn stones with tenacity in the long river of years.
Speaking steadily, on the other hand, is a reflection of their wisdom. When they communicate with others, they are careful with their words and never make radical statements easily. Each sentence is well thought out, neither too direct and hurtful, nor ambiguous so that people can not understand. They are good at listening, know how to express themselves at the right time, and use a gentle but firm tone to persuade others. This kind of calm way of speaking not only shows their cultivation and connotation, but also makes them win the respect and trust of others in interpersonal communication. They are like experienced helmsmen, in the rough sea of people, with precise language to control the direction of communication, sailing to the other side of the shore of success.
It is their philosophy of dealing with the world that they usually do not show off. They don't like to show off their talents and achievements in front of people, always quietly work hard and do things in a low profile. They know the truth that “if the wood shows in the forest, the wind will destroy it”, so they choose to hide their strength and wait for the right time to make a splash. In the highly competitive society, they are like hunters lurking in the dark, keenly observing everything around them, looking for the best time to strike. They don't compete with others for the length of time, but focus on long-term goals, and accumulate their energy with patience and perseverance.
However, it is this seemingly ordinary appearance that hides a more sophisticated than ordinary people. They have a deep insight into human nature and can accurately grasp the psychology and needs of others. They are good at maneuvering in complex interpersonal relationships, skillfully resolving various conflicts and crises. They have their own principles and bottom line, once touched, they will not hesitate to take action to make the offender pay the price!
In the long course of history, there are countless such examples. Sima Yi of the Three Kingdoms period is a typical representative. He lived a life of stoicism, always keeping a low profile and loyalty in the face of Cao Cao's suspicion and Cao Pi's skepticism. He was good-tempered and could endure in silence no matter how much he was wronged; he was a steady talker and never revealed his ambitions easily; he did not reveal himself and bided his time in the Cao Wei regime. However, when the time was ripe, he decisively launched the Gaoping Mausoleum Rebellion and took control of the Cao Wei regime in one fell swoop, laying the foundation for the rise of the Sima family.
Therefore, in our life, when we meet those people who are good-tempered, speak steadily and usually don't show their sharp edges, we must remain in awe and not be easily offended. We should respect their choices and decisions and build good relationships with them. Because they are like a thick book, each page contains profound wisdom and philosophy of life.
By socializing with them, we can learn a lot and enhance our own cultivation and realm. At the same time, we also need to understand that the truly strong people are often those who are introverted and deep, their strength does not lie in the surface of the publicity, but in the inner toughness and wisdom. Let us treat everyone around us with a humble attitude and feel their charm and value with all our hearts.