You're not alone! My wife and I were feeling this too! We spent Christmas (which, unfortunately, is also my birthday...) at a friends house. The commercialization of the holidays would have you believe that everything is great and swell and the holidays is all about giving, blah, blah, blah. That all family's are hunky-dory and we all want to go into debt... for a single day. I agree with @heymattsokol. Being open about it is the best thing to do. Hope the rest of your year fares better.