being grateful and appreciative makes ones own life quality rise so much-I worked for billionaires in the past and even on that level of abundance saw daily misery only based on the focus of "not enough"-this whole scarcity thinking on the planet is what gets us in trouble all the time-counting ones blessings truly makes one see of how much we have-I am sooooooo glad to hear that after all that struggle you got rewarded so nicely with love and things you longed for-your son is adorable and one can feel already he's the same trouble maker like his dad :-)