My friend @sochul, I like it that you are very fond of your wife and you two always work out everything. Family is all and I respect it.

When it comes to the issue of routine I would say :don't get use to them so much that they become habits. Familiarity creates routine and routine makes habits. Habits means you are predictable, your actions hold on surprise anymore and habits are hard to break away from.

In a world that is constantly evolving, we should be in position to adapt to changes and if you were too comfortable in your current position, changes will be hard for you. This is just my opinion and a suggestion, not an advice. I hope it helps in your current discussion. Have a beautiful day.