That "I do not know what to do with my life" is probably one of the biggest lies you are telling yourself ... because in reality you do.

And before you put your hands to your head, I tell you that this is a conclusion that I have drawn after working on this concern with hundreds of people, and see that there is always a common thread.

Are you also inside that suffocating well of confusion that prevents you from moving forward or making decisions? Do you think you do not know what to do with your life?

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I dont believe it. Because that "I do not know what to do with my life" is probably one of the biggest lies you are telling yourself ... because in reality you do.

If you know it, but what happens is that:

First: you do not dare to imagine it.

Second: you do not dare to believe that you can get it.

It is like that.

That wild dream terrifies you so much, it seems so distant and unattainable for you, that the easiest thing is to go on a trip to that world of skepticism and naaahh , because with that you already have the perfect excuse to return to your routine, Sure, predictable.

Does it sound?

"Oh, oh, oh ... I'm so lost. And look that done meditation, I've signed up for courses, I've read a thousand self-help books ... and I still do not know what I want. Even the bow I'm self-knowledge !! "

"But, is not there anything you like?

Well, the truth is that what I like is cooking, and when I'm cooking I spend hours flying ... and I'm very good at it. But you know what happens? I miss the rice because I am 40 years old and I still do not know what I want!

And this brings me to the following certainty:

Confusion is an excuse. No more no less.
Because tell me something. Since when is confusion a witch with the ability to tie you hands and feet and paralyze you completely? No, right? Confusion is just an emotion, like any other ... you can manage, like any other.

That is, always, always, always, you can make some decision and take some step forward, despite the confusion.

And do you know what would help you more than anything to take those steps despite the confusion? Close your eyes, dream, visualize that dream, trust that you will achieve it, feel it in your body, open your eyes and get going.

Because when you open your eyes, and if you have really managed to believe and trust that it is possible to get there, you will be so plugged in that you will be able to take action despite the confusion. Because it happens as they count around there: When you take one step, another opens, and then another, and then another.

And you know what? That life is a mess, and maybe in the end you may not get it, but in that moment you will know that it really was not that important.

And this is what differentiates people who move forward and live a full life of those who do not. And tell me, in which of these two scenarios do you represent yourself?

Yes! IT'S POSSIBLE! I'm going to get my dream! - Get out of my way madafaka !! You do not scare me!! I know what I want and I will go for it !!

Yes! IT'S POSSIBLE! I'm going to get my dream! - Aaaahhh! Well, I think I was freaking out a little ... Oops! how late is ... I'm going to take a nap.

In a second? Need help? Well I invite you to come to Circus People, my star coaching program, in which we work just so you can learn to feel very comfortable in the confusion, and become the kind of person who throws a couple of eggs / ovaries at life.