Giving Without Wishing Back, Receiving Without Forgetting
Cynical half pitched sentence such as, "the day gini, where there is a free lunch?", it feels quite familiar sounds around us. Words like that indicate that we live in a world full of calculation Department. Any calculated profit lose. I pay, you pay siangmu eat eat malamku. Isn't this life more lightly it is like if we didn't have to count and record everything?.
My own life experience proved that only in giving I received. This means that when I give with passion and sincere, does it matter, time, attention, or join in prayer, then I receive a tremendous happiness and not measurable with money, because I know that it's a human reply is limited and may be disappointing. But when God gives, so it is always in abundance.
The world has indeed begun to foreigners with sincerity and integrity. In his ' man doing various things to always get more benefits. I am not saying that we should not profit. LHA mau gimana life when every day come up short?. The advantage that I am referring to is the profit that brings good impact for many people, and not merely the eye focuses on oneself.
Why should we be jealous and afraid to see others succeed or benefit? Envy and jealousy over the success of others will only cover our own way of life, because our focus is on the surplus of the cloth, not thankful for what God has given us. Our energy and concentration are wasted on the greatness of others, and we forget to move forward.
By giving us an indirect expression of gratitude to God because we are still given the opportunity to do good. Only a living person can give not? Giving is also an act of expressing our faith in God that we are not afraid of deprivation. We believe that God's goodness will always be sufficient. To me, this is Faith; trusting God's endless guidance and goodness in this life.
Giving may not be something difficult, the hardest part is not remembering what we have given. There is a feeling of lightness and extraordinary relief when we can do this. This means we break away from the bonds hanging and wait for the return from the recipient. That is why many people live in disappointment because they are too diligent to remember and expect back what has been given.
When we are given the opportunity to help or give to others, give it with sincerity. There is no reason for us to add full memory capacity to our brains, because God really never forgets. Believe me, nature is always flowing in balance. God can provide us without impoverishing others. We can give without fear of being poor.
Giving wisely. It means we give with a good purpose and to improve the lives of the people we help. If we give money when it is clear the money will be used to get drunk or gamble, we will participate in bad things, and further destroy the life of that person.
The other side of giving is receiving. Many people may think that receiving is delicious. We are in a disadvantaged position. It is precisely for me, accepting something from other people is always a burden, because I can not forget the goodness of others in my life. My parents became very good examples in educating and teaching to never forget the good thoughts of others.
What would the world be like if everyone just accepted without replying? We may not be given equal opportunity or promptly retaliate to the giver, but train ourselves to remember the good we have received, and discipline ourselves to do the same to others when we are given the opportunity. Only then can goodness become a rolling snowball without stopping, and we can live in a world that can proclaim the beauty of kindness.
When we give without remembering to reciprocate, we can live in a calm, sincere and relieved tranquility of the heart. When we receive without forgetting, we become the consistent successor of goodness which brings more good wherever we are.
Regards,
@saidul