BE SPECIFIC WITH YOUR EMOTIONS.
How not to be a baby adult.
Adam didn't start from Eve to be caring. He started with the animals he named, he showed them care, gave them sweet names...
Imagine Adam calling one hippo or elephant 'honey!
He did all these yet something was lacking - joy!!
It was not until Eve came, did he know joy, it doesn't matter what he/she does for you, if he/she isn't the one, you can't be fulfilled.
Most times we waste time, energy, resources, on the wrong people, coming out empty and without nothing for the right ones, we cheat innocent people to pay others, all in the senseless crave to love people we shouldn't have wasted time with.
This one isn't a case of scattering seeds upon many waters, you are really on your own on this, God sef no send u work ooo
Stop being a baby adult!
A lot of people lack emotional intelligence, hence they go around exhibiting emotional puerility and childishness. Stop contaminating people's hearts with hurts simply because you refused to grow up.
Love is one word everyone now uses to get attention, but you know, manipulating people to our selfish aims like I said before is the hallmark of a very weak person.
Whatever you want exactly I a relationship, say it. Don't say it's love when it's hunger, don't say it's love when it's sex, don't say it's marriage when it's social inclusiveness, don't say it's marriage when it's change of class you want, don't say it's love when you are emotionally sick.
Just like Adam, never settle for quantity, Money, fame, settle for fulfilment. Only one person will give that feeling, if everyone does, something is fundamentally wrong.
Be emotionally intelligent.
Amb David Akaninyene Eteka
@AmbDavid