"SLC-S24/W2 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Capability".
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How are you all? I hope you are well. Another great competition is underway in the second week of Powerful Conversations and I am here to share my views about Steemit Challenge S24W2 | Powerful Debate Love vs. Capability. Thank you so much @vishwara ma'am for to give us opportunity to discuss about valuable topics. I am ready to participate in the second week of Powerful Conversations. Let's get started.
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The most beautiful, sweetest, most affectionate and loving word in the world is mother. The great Lord of the worlds has also honored the dignity of the mother with the highest respect in the Holy Quran. It is said there that the heaven of the child is under the feet of the mother. The importance of a mother in the life of a child can be understood from this sentence. Only a mother can feel the immense pain and suffering of motherhood. Even then, a smile of satisfaction and joy remains on her face. We can understand from this incident how much pain a mother can endure for her child with a smile.
There is no alternative to a mother, and there is no alternative to a mother's love. It is possible to compare a mother only with a mother, not with anyone else.
A mother takes care of her child with her countless invisible hands. Before the birth of a child, her unwritten responsibility begins. No one assigns this responsibility to her. Soaked in affection and love, the mother moves forward for the welfare of the child.
We see a mother in different forms at different times. Each form is for the welfare of the child. A mother, amidst her thousand problems, focuses on the needs of her child.
There was a time when we saw a mother only as a housewife. Taking care of the child, preparing food for the family members, and managing the household were the main responsibilities of a mother. Now, with the change of time, a mother has to be involved in many kinds of work. On the one hand, a mother manages the house, meets all the needs of the child, takes up various professions for the financial well-being of the family, and also tries to make a bright career for herself. While doing so many things, a mother often has to make some concessions. Maybe there is a lack of care for the son, maybe there is a problem in managing the family, maybe there is inattention in some work at the workplace. That does not mean that that mother is not an ideal mother. I salute that mother from my perspective. Because the mother's hard work is all for the sake of her children and family. Even a mother who dreams of a bright career and while doing that, gives less care to her children, that too thinking about the bright future of her child.
I have seen a mother in my real life who has managed the household, worked, and tutored at the same time. I have seen her wake up at 4 am to cook, wake up her son at 6 am to feed him, send him to school, and then she would go to the office at 8 am. She would run home at lunchtime, feed her son, go to the office again, come home at night, do household chores, study for her son, and also give two tutoring sessions.
All these tasks are possible only for a mother. And all for the good of her child. However, it is also true that some mothers are very selfish, thinking of nothing but themselves. However, if you put that into perspective, it would not be even one in a million. Therefore, it is logical not to bring up the example of selfish mothers when discussing the ideals and sacrifices of millions of mothers.
There is no question of judging mothers who work day and night for their children and family and are trying to build their careers. In my opinion, they should be welcomed with a garland of flowers. I think we should also do similar work by learning from them.
I will also call mothers who are forced to neglect their children to some extent while doing various tasks. Because I have to judge them, no one has been able to fulfill their responsibilities. In my opinion, they are failing to fulfill all aspects while working inhumanly for the good of the family and children. But there was no lack of love or willpower. So, if we want to judge, we have to judge the mother or come forward to help the mother.
A mother is always good. A mother can never be bad. Maybe our perspective provides us with various thoughts. A mother's tireless work is only for the bright future of the family and children. There may be some shortcomings in doing these things. But I will not disrespect her by calling her a bad mother or a failed mother for any failure. Rather, I will salute her for her efforts, go ahead to help her, and extend all kinds of support to realize her dreams. Only then will a mother be able to fulfill her dreams easily.
