Heyy Steemians.... Building a household is not as easy as it looks, not as fair as a picture in a wedding invitation

in #bogor6 years ago

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Hey Steemians... Good day. Bogor is Rain.

Steemians....
Remember, Building a household is not as easy as it looks, not as fair as a picture in a wedding invitation, and not as easy as a lively picture on wedding sites.

Therefore do not let your decision to marry only based on the talk of a moment, or because it is hunted by age. Because householding is not as easy as building barbie houses, where you get bored, you can just ignore it.

Why is it not easy to say? Because there are many responsibilities that must be carried out, whether for a husband or wife.

So make sure when you decide you want to get married, it really is ready for you physically and mentally.

And one more thing you should not do in deciding to get married, don't talk. Why? Because if you only rely on the lives of others, then chances are you will regret it if you don't meet expectations.

Because not all household stories are the same, not all households that seem peaceful and full of happiness are just as straight as they seem, no!

Because of the reality, sometimes that is the most trying to stay fine with lots of struggle, patience, and sincerity.

When you want to decide to get married, then hopefully that intention is indeed moved from the heart, from physical and mental readiness, and hopefully there has been a lot of knowledge gained.

Not because you are aware that age is getting darker, because marriage readiness is not seen from age, but seen from how much provision of responsibility in yourself.

Know, in a married life it is not only the content of love, and not just the content of fun. But there are also names of disputes, differences of opinion, and minor problems.

And of course, all of these obstacles can be broken down if in the couple between husband and wife there is an adequate basis for responsibility.

Remember, no matter how old you are at this time don't get wrong in taking steps, don't let you decide or get married just because you realize you have been demanded for age.

Because such marriages sometimes decide where they come from, where they come from, where they come from, where they come from. And if it turns out that the situation does not meet expectations, the possibility of separation is greater.

Thank You and good night all.

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