THINKING ON PAPER by: @paulokuk1
I believe that every female responds to two things: WORD and MONEY. When a man is rich with fine words and appropriately communicates those words to a woman using the right tone per time - whether they come with genuine intentions or not, - the woman tends to be fond of him because his words come with peace, reassurance of love, commitments, and promises that fills her heart with hope, trust and expectation for the future. Meeting those emotional needs is the master key to calming other emotional rages.
However, the day a man stops communicating those fine words to his lady, the day he lost her to another man who as well has fine words and can communicate same to her. This is because every woman longs for this emotional satisfaction. But the truth is, if a man has fine words but lacks money, there's a high probability that his lady will have that feeling/ thoughts to be with a man who will take care of her physical/ material needs; which most of the times, they succeed at having an external affairs devoid of emotional involvement perhaps, for the purpose of having their physical/ material needs solved by a man who has financial power even when they use the phrase: "everything is not about money".
On the other hand, when a man has money and graciously/ generously gives money to a female or helps her solve her physical/ material needs, she tends to like him because he solves her physical needs. However, she will have the need, feelings or thoughts to be with a man who is rich with fine words and can touch the depth of her emotion with love - whether he means it or not, so long as he can manage his moods and can pretend to be in love with her.
My submission therefore:
- Every man should be rich with money and fine words and the ability to communicate those words to his lady while he supports her financially. Having these two important factors capped with the right attitude per time, any man can have an enviable relationship cos' every other things will be a plus to the union.
