I feel i was just too naive.

That's the aim.
Get you to feel stupid.
It gives them the power , the influence...

Now, when i recognize such a conversation, i just change the subject or disappear. Because, although i will do anything to get into the package and get the prize of truth, i have learned that such is always an empty box.

...Yeah but showing other people the reality, does them a great service (and maybe even wakes up the empty box giver, sometimes.... maybe...kinda...possibly...)