Cheer you up? i don't think that is possible.

What happens at times when such is said to happen is that one person gets another to focus on something different. This allows the previous loop that was playing to be altered or to end.

Talking someone out of suicide requires getting them to focus on something that they want to do in the future. If they continue to focus on the pain and situation that they are currently in, they will surely off themselves. (if they are men. if they are women, they usually fail, and then attention gets focussed on them...)

Well, what i noticed that is very wrong with the developed world is that you can't make money. So, you are sitting there and you say, i would like things, like a house and food. "I need money for those things," you say. So, you go about to get money. And...

... nothing.

For all our years of schooling, no one taught us how to make money.
In fact, corporations and govern-cement have made it harder and harder to make money. Raising the bar so high that your average IQ person can't build a business. What's a low IQ person supposed to do?

And now, we get into the trap. We have to spend so much resources and energy to get to a place where we are making money. Be it interviewing for a job or getting a hustle going or manufacturing a product.

So, how do we solve a society wide problem.
I'm hungry, i need food, i can work, but where is there work?

and i have probably talked you deeper into your morass .