Mistress Penellope Talks BDSM: Episode 2; Wax Play (NSFW)

I love every part of being the sadistic bitch Mistress that I am, but there is a special place in my heart for wax play. The searing, inescapable pain mixed with the unpredictability of the drop. The bright colors and inescapable lessons to be learned. Yes wax really gets Mistress wet. However, for anyone just starting, wax play can turn from fun to nightmare really quick without the proper info.

This week I want to break down best practice for wax play and explain a bit of technique. There are some that will debate certain kinds of wax, and after a long time of messing with different things and study I feel like that's an understandable thing but here's how I play; Paraffin, 100% of the time 100% Paraffin Wax. The only temp variance in Paraffin is your color and length of flame exposure. It burns very clean and slow, and its hand feel is wonderful. it's also relatively affordable and available. Its the only wax I play with.

I have my candles made at a shop on etsy called Bear Mountain. The three colors are my personal colors or my "house" colors, my outfits and equipment all have purple, gold and white worked into them. I like using wax that imprints my seal onto my property.

As far as technique goes I have multiple ways of using a basic candle. The first of course is to allow a small pool to build within the bowl of the candle then spreading that out on the surface. This technique allows for hotter wax and a delicious waiting period that allows anticipation to grow.

Next is tilting the candle so the flame catches the lip of the candle, if you allow a small pool to build before you begin to pour you can keep a fairly steady steam going which elicits some very satisfying moans and screams.

The thing to remember is that darker colors will generally burn hotter. If you are pouring onto genitales start with a cooler pour until your sure you wont scald your pet.

Well that should be a good starter for anyone interested in wax play. You may ask me any further questions you may have. I hope all you lovelies are doing wonderfully.