barriers of life

While in deep thought a few years ago my thoughts took me to life as a whole and problems personal we go through as humans .
Some of these problems are self inflicted some are not but at the end of the day we all go through some sort or kind of problem growing up.
First barrier I thought about was time...life will tell you time is forever and death will tell you time is forever for instance ..At a funeral while the deceased time has ended the mourners still have time with them....I started thinking about the 24 hr clock, days and weeks months and years and the importance of having them, but then I wondered to a time where there was no clocks ..time still existed...humans and animals were still filling the earth..so what was the need for it to be introduced. I should Google it really..
I see it as a barrier because as humans most are stuck in this year cycle .starting with birthdays then the religious festives ..I say some because I choose to live on the other side of time. But the year cycle is what's being passed down through generations .why? I'm 37 now in year time lol and respect time too much to have it associated with clocks only because of what I have been through in life ..If anyone has had an experience let's say a spiritual experience they would understand where I going with this..A moment where what seems like an hour in bliss only turns out to be a few seconds or minutes...or where the information received could not have been received in such a short time .. If you really think about it...regarding time..patience is all you need....time becomes a barrier when you record it.. days weeks years will have you thinking about the past instead of the future, days weeks year will have you saying 'ill do that when the time is right ' instead of you doing it now ..that's what I think anyway .
Family was the second barrier I wanted mention. For some of us we have the family we are born in , the family we create and the spiritual family in the afterlife..so for religious sake ill use the family we are born to and the family we create. Has anyone ever asked themselves why was they born into the family there in?...I have ...being a twin I asked myself a few times..but I came to the conclusion that the family we're born into can only give us the feelings and emotions we need to get through life weather it be pain or love hurt shame or pride. Friends can effect your emotions to an extent but your blood relatives will take you to a point where your tested on your control.
We leave the comfort of our own family to start a new family ..hopefully with good learning from both parents ..not to go back on my earlier post but the importance of a stable relationship to children leaning life is being diluted.
Anyway I thought to myself what family is more important? the one we are born in or the one we create..and came up with neither. Does anyone get more self enjoyment helping there family or helping complete strangers ? We have a society where family first or blood is thicker than water seems to be the moto. But family's are started by complete strangers..life shows you how important humans are to each other. family will have you treating your blood relatives a different way from strangers ..take family and friends out of your vocabulary for a sec , we are left with people. .humans..you'll find you'll have no family problems or friend problems only human problems ..you'd probably be more comfortable talking about human problems than family or friend problems hence why I think the understanding of family is a barrier of life..treat everyone you come across how you in turn would like to be treated ..give when you can , help when you can and love what you create.. hope this makes sense ...