Go create your own rules..
Don't look for consensus, live your own truth!
When you start living the life of your dreams, not everyone will understand you, some might even think you are stupid. Remember that, it's your dream, not their's. So don't expect others to see it the way you do.
The only thing we got to do is, be determined to turn our dreams into reality, not to prove to anyone else, but we do it because it's our own truth.
Steve Jobs once said "Everything around you that you call life, was made up by people no smarter than you. And you can change it. Once you learn that you will never be the same again".
Go create your own rules, because this is your life. You got to live it the way it is meant to be lived. Don't try to measure it up to the way someone else lived their's. Just be true to yourself, live your passion, discover the real you, and live a life without any regrets.
So that at the end, you can look back and be proud of the life you lived and the legacy you left behind.