It is more common than we believe, we have all passed by, as a person who does as a person who suffers, without realizing it. This type of action is more frequent in those people who like gossip or that crazy girlfriend or boyfriend that being in a relationship checks all social networks for something, even this continuous action after ending the relationship.

But that is like Stalkear, since it is a word in English we will not use the rae, but if another page that helps us with the meanings in English:

"It is known as stalking the English word, which comes from the verb" to stalk "which means" stalker "," persecutor ". This term is applied to the individual who harasses, persecutes, obsessively and persistently annoys another person, in many cases, is a celebrity "

This is presented in two ways, in an obsessive and annoying manner, as the definition says, this can lead to generate demand, depending on the degree of harassment that comes and the person you are harassed. And the other way it is presented is from the point of view of gossip, which does not generate problems for anyone, and only information is sought, this is generated in a much more unknown way.

The good and bad!

We can talk about positive points when it comes to stalking, when it is for mere information or curiosity that does not compromise any feeling more than that, it is okay, allowed as long as we do not take it to an extreme. For example: now that we started the internships, each one was curious to know who our supervisor was, we grab the names that appeared in the letters and we look for them in the social networks, to know what kind of people we would meet and thus to know how they would evaluate us . See this is a healthy way of stalking and without harassing.
Stalkear is harmful to your health!

Well, and as you know, if there are good things there are bad things too ... the worst thing that can happen to us is to take this action to the extreme, and doing this we would fall into harassment, so we must be restrained.
Another point to keep in mind is when there is an affective relationship with that person that is stalked, since that compromises our judgment before what we can find. Many times it happens that out of curiosity we go to the networks of that person, just to see how this is, and I could happen that we find that person is happy, is doing well and is or is not with someone. But the worst thing about this situation is when you have a feeling and even if you look and look, you do not get anything, and that is worse.
It is good that in any of the cases we are happy for that person, I think that the duty to be is not to wish badly on anyone, unless what has happened is super serious and capable that person really deserves the worst, I'm not like that and I do not recommend that to you.

 Recommendations for leading a life with less stalkeo

First of all, we have to take into account who we stalkeamos, if in one way or another we care or care about us and that can affect us so much. Of affecting us, control their impulse of stupidity and do anything else that distracts them from doing this action.
Sometimes it happens that we misunderstand things, since we can find information, but once there being everyone who interprets what they want and that we must take care, not see or look beyond what is seen.
Another very common thing is stalking trustworthy people and guessing without talking to them, in case you have confidence you do not have to be so stupid and talk to these people, that very likely they will tell us what we want to know and without giving us bad life.

So this is stalkear, a double-edged sword, which, while it may amuse us and distract us at some point, often injures many people or create many minds in others. That's why I tell you friend steemits think well before stalkear if you will be prepared for what you will find or not find ... as always, you decide.

Bibliography: https://www.signified.com/stalkear/
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