#All4one ///Should the firstborn child of a family be male or female?!
To start with
I want to thank @steemalive community for this contest, they said it all when they said that first born comes with hug responsibility I can testify to that as a first born.
Do you think the position is best for a male or female child?
With the responsibility the first Borns have I don't know if the first born should be a man or a woman, if I say woman now the men will start fighting me if I say man the women will ask me if am okay at all
The honest truth is that anyone that JEHOVAH bless with such position should be much ready to work hard in other to fulfill his or her responsibility.
What are the advantages or disadvantages if its male or female?
Male
| Advantage | Disadvantage |
|---|---|
| The male are always at home, they will marry and produce more family members | Most time when they marry the forget their family. |
| A man builds house in his father's compound even when the parents are no more someone will still be in the compound | Not all men see the importance of taking care of their parents which is thier major responsibility. |
Female.
| Advantages | Disadvantages |
|---|---|
| A female child rarely forgets thier parents most of them put their family ahead of them | A female child will be married out of the family and she has no right as a woman in the family. |
Introduce your family firstborn to us - name, city of residence, occupation,
Our first bornMeet our first born, her name is Beauty Adaku Ome also known as @beautybb.
She lives in Lagos state with her husband, she's married for three years now.
She's married to one Mr Micheal Nwagbara also known as @mikemm.
She's a Nurse in profession with 12yrs working experience.
As you can see she's a pretty damsel both physical and spiritually.
What is so special about him/her?
I can't say all about this damsel she's a special and gold hearted woman.
- She's so kind and loving.
- She's so caring.
- She loves Jehovah God and works hard to do His will.
- She takes responsibility, she's more than just a good woman.
- But she has hot temper, tho it doesn't stop her from being a good woman.
How does he/she help your family?
She has been the bread winner of our family, she has worked so hard to help us both financially and otherwise.
I can't forget my younger brother who has been sick for almost three years now my sister has been the one responsible for his bills and everything.
My father has been sick she has been the one taking care of everything, I can't say all she has been doing for my family.
How should parents prepare firstborn children ahead of the responsibilities they will face in the family?
Knowing the responsibility the first born will bear in future, the parents should try thier possible best in giving them the best of education, so that they will have a good financial foundation that will make life and the responsibility easier for them.
Wether they are male or female they deserve the best because the truth still remains that is only when a first born is comfortable she or he can take care of any other person, so lay a good foundation for them .
In igbo land you will hear so people say don't train a woman because she will be married out of the family, I was a victim of that local idea and it affected my level of education and it's also affecting my responsibility today because I can only help with what I have not what I dont have.
It's a pleasure @steemalive community, I hereby invite @ruthjoe,@donpearl,@sammylove to join.
You are an awesome woman oo, keep it up. Am surprised your husband is on steemit.
Thank you dear yes my husband is a steemian
wow your husband is really good and also I believe he is a good husband to you both lovers doing steemit 🤔🤔🤭🤭🤭 surprised ooo keep it up
I want to start by saying a big thank you for all that you do for your family as the firstborn. Its considered sacred service by God. I actually love your position in this issue. Just as you said, anyone that is privileged to be the firstborn should be ready to work hard because the position comes with big responsibility. God Jehovah will continue to bless your efforts for the family.
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Thank you so much I deeply appreciate your commendation
Sure, never say never. We keep on pushing
This is so touching my honorable mentor, i must confess, you are stronger than seven men, may jah continue to be your strength and stronghold because life no de easy.
Hahahahah I give JEHOVAH all the praise am no body, good for nothing slave
What you said is quite clear anyone that God gives us is very good because they are the fruits of womb .
In the other hand you have a good and caring sister
yeah I totally agree with what you said friend you have done well God knows btye reasons and benefit of creating male that's why he created them
no be small things stronger than seven men imagine because of this small things she did 😅😅😅 male are really the best no matter what
Hahaha,am happy that you know that some of the male child will start fighting you if you said that it should be the male,anyone that is given by God should be cherished because there are people who don't have the opportunity to bear a child of their own.
Exactly it is a thing of glory to have a child of your own weather male or female
Yes.
no be small things boys are really stubborn and give people headache fighting no be small males for first issue can fight 🤭🤭 but I agree with what you said it is only good that give child bothale and female and also know that the good this is really great
I can see ooooo
Mrs beauty adaku is a very beautiful firstborn, her husband must be lucky to have her
I can see your doing very well even with your responsibilities as the firstborn, gender doesn't matter
Jehovah who gave the child will always give him/her the ability to shoulder the responsibilities
yes ooo from the picture above you will know that she is so pretty and beautiful indeed from what she said she is really catching up.with her responsibility and also performance are good this is really a great content
wow what a nice post
She's so kind and loving.
She's so caring.
She loves Jehovah God and works hard to do His will.
She takes responsibility, she's more than just a good woman.
But she has hot temper, tho it doesn't stop her from being a good woman
she is really good I so much love this part indeed she is so brave keep it up.friend
That is so sad, dear.
Sincerely, I usually wish that people stop practising that outdated norm and culture where they deny females the right to quality education and growth. Training the girl child is beneficial to the girl, her families and the society at large.
With this experience, I strongly believe that you will encourage all your children to acquire an education to the highest degree or level they wish for.
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For me, it doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl that comes first. The bottom line is this, any child be it male or female, are a gift from God. And they should be trained in a godly way to become better and useful to the society. As per what you said about your educational background, you can upgrade, not necessarily in the conventional way. There's many online platforms in which this can be done. Determination is the key. Beautiful presentation!