THE ANNOYING RELATIVE

Hello my fellow steemians, this my participation for this special contest organized by my wonderful friend @bossj23 and also @steem4Nigeria community and their members for successfully hosting this contest. Before I start let's me share more insight.

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Relatives are significant in our lives especially in this world of . Relatives may be parents, siblings, cousins, or other family members. It help to define who we are and have an impact on our values . Having family get-togethers and festive activities amongst relatives can strengthen relationships and create enduring memories.

Also doing things like Holidays, birthdays, and other special occasions are examples of events that unite us and fortify our bonds with one another. However, disputes and conflicts can occur between relatives, just like in any other relationship.

Relative are our roots, our support system, and our connection to our past and our future. So, let's cherish and appreciate the special bond we share with our relatives, and strive to nurture and strengthen these relationships for years to come. Let's get started by answering the contest questions.

Do you see it as a burden or an added advantage when your relatives visits you?	•

Relative's visit can be either challenging or a blessing because you never can tell what the future holds, whether your destiny helper might be from them. Some may see it see as burden mostly when they care about themselves only or have a different personalities. To me I would say that when my relatives visits me, it is an advantage to me because when they visit, I get to learn, get blessed and know what to do because of the ideas and experience they had when they just like me. Also it create a long lasting experience which I will be sharing.

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Is there a relative you find to be very annoying that you detest his or her presence in your house?	•

Yes I no go lie you. I have a relative that annoys me alot, he's my uncle from my father's side. Let me share my annoying experience I had when he visited.

Share your experience with this relative of yours	•

My experience goes this way. My annoying relative is my uncle, as for the rest there are good and great.
My uncle is known for his overbearing and pompous attitude each times he visits, because of his attitude, I gave him a name called the disturbing man. Each visiting days he comes, he bangs at the gate like a man mad. He is lousy, always commanding people's attention around him, interrupting people conversation and taking charge of the house as if he owns it. His presence is unbearable to a point that he is the topic mostly discussed in the family.

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During his recent visit during that Easter period, after my parents and siblings were back from church, he started assigning unnecessary task that was supposed to be done in rainy season. Not only that, my uncle demands for special treatment like being served first as the second oga after my dad, he normally claims to seat in the most comfortable seats that my father supposed to sit in the living room during morning devotion. Running errands for him is frustrating and annoying because his errands are unreasonable and burdensome.

Lastly, my uncle's behavior brings conflict between us as siblings but my parents always tried to balance it with peace and harmony. My siblings and I sometimes rolls our eyes off our uncle's lackadaisical attitude because it's annoying.

Is it possible for one's relatives to divide one's home? Explain	•

Yes, it is very possible.
It often occurs when there are disagreements or disputes over inheritances, property ownership, or other financial matters. In some cases, relative may have differing opinions on how to handle the distribution of assets or the management of the home, leading to conflicts that can result in division and separation within the family.

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In these situations, communication breakdowns, unresolved resentments, and power struggles can all contribute to the division of the family home.

However, it is important for family members to try to address conflicts in a more respectful manner, such as through mediation or family therapy, in order to minimize the negative impact on relationships and prevent further division.

In conclusion, open and honest communications, and a willingness to work together is an essential tool in preventing the division of one's home and conflict among relatives.

I will love to invite my friends @us-andrew, @imohmitch, @glorystar21 my humble sister to participate in this contest.
Thank you for going through my post.
Cc; @bossj23