Hello My Steemain Friends ,

How are you. I hope you people of steemian are good and enjoy your life . Well I am well. May God bless you all. Today I am writing about an interesting and knowledgeable contest which is launched by @bossj23 all time my favourite topic ""Your Losses in Life"" So, in this post I am going to share my point of view about this topic

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Life gives us many such experiences which are priceless and every moment of life teaches us something or the other. What I lost in my life, because of which I cried and got upset, is my faith. I trusted some people of my family blindly. As I have seen in my house since childhood, why should we think, they are our own, why should we think about family members. They will not betray us,

But when those special relations of yours betray you, whom you consider your own from the heart, then it seems that we have made a big mistake. We wasted our precious time on such relations which were never ours. And this is their nature, those whom we were forgiving and ignoring, they can never improve.

We were making a mistake by thinking that they are our own, they were just opportunists who were using us to get their work done. Looking back, I remember that time when I was wasting my precious time. Then I wish that time comes back and I can do something right. But the time that is lost never comes back, we are left with tears and regrets.

Absolutely I blamed myself for that loss, because I could not understand that these relations are using my goodness, my simplicity, my closeness. I lost my respect, lost my self-confidence. I have always kept my faith in my family members, from whom I never hide anything. But when they play politics with you, it hurts a lot.

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After coming to my in-laws' house, I saw so much politics that all the relations turned out to be selfish, my heart broke. Today, in 20 years, somewhere, even if a little bit, I have changed. For all of them, earlier I used to think from my heart, but the other relation used to think from the mind, so now I also think from the mind about hollow relations.

No, I have not forgotten the past, but yes, it is buried somewhere in my heart. But I definitely keep learning from bitter memories and I have not forgotten because the other person still does not let me forget them with his deeds and the good thing is that if I always remember these bitter things of his, then I will minimize my loss. Because some relationships are such that they get stuck in the throat like a bone, which neither can be swallowed nor spat out and I like living and talking in the family, this is my weakness.

But I never let this weakness dominate me. Now I have also given similar teachings to my children that do not become like me. Do not think from the heart that I got deceived, but you children should be like them and live with them. There is nothing in being good. I also teach my children that never give so much power to anyone that he has the power to bring tears in your eyes. There is no need to spend unnecessarily on anyone just by speaking sweetly. Because I have helped everyone with my heart, mind and money, but even then I was cheated, so I will not repeat that

To those who have lost their precious person or precious thing, I will give them this advice that whatever is yours, which really gives you respect, which is your relationship of the heart, keep it very safely. Because good relationships which you understand, are found by luck. Spend as much time as possible with those relationships, which treat you wholeheartedly and give importance to a person.

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Understand the value of precious things, understand their importance. Because once something is lost, it never comes back. If you respect your relationships in time, you will not regret it. Because even animals are remembered after they are gone. So do not deny the importance of precious things.

I would invite my few friends , @memamun , @sduttaskitchen , @chant , @josepha

Greetings

Thankyou ❤️