What would have happened to me if...?

Hello, friends welcome to my post in which I have discussed "What would have happened to me if...?" as part of my participation in this 👉contest organized by @lirvic

Decision is very important in our lives without a decision it is as if we have no say in what we need in life and for the betterment of my well most time I would just make a very drastic decision for my peace of mind which at the end of the day I will began to reflect on my decision.

In life, when two people from different places in life entirely come together as friends, there is usually a misunderstanding between them, which I have several times in my life face, all in the name of me being in a relationship or trying to be perfect somebody. There is this lady whom I once cherished so much and was so willing to be with her and do the things that make her happy.

I do care for this girl as if my life depended on her, until one certain I made a drastic decision that I would never talk to her again. Well, while in a relationship with her, we usually have misunderstandings about whether I am at fault or not. I apologized to her for the sake of my love for her, until one certain time that we had an issue in which I developed the confidence and ghosted her for up to 2 weeks.

She is so proud of herself, acting without her in my life I won't survive, always claiming right and acting innocent all the time I got tired of her attitude towards me and made a decision that I would never apologize to her, nor call her again which I did which she later realizes her wrongdoings.

Had it been I chosen a different decision and went and apologized to her or began to beg her for something that she was at fault I wouldn't have gotten my respect as a man, and there wouldn't have been boundaries between us, also she would start treating me as someone who can't do without her by going further to manipulate me.

I am inviting: @dove11, @ruthjoe, and @Ihorgic