What would you tell them? | 3rd Edition

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What Would You Tell Them?

There are moments in life when you just wish you could stand in front of the world, clear your throat, and say a few words to certain people. I’ve had my fair share of those moments, where I’m screaming in my head but smiling on the outside. Well, today I’m going to let it all out. If I had the chance to speak my mind, here’s exactly what I would tell these groups of people.

1. To those who think this is the worst time in history

I’d tell you to take a deep breath and slow down for a second. I know things feel hard, overwhelming, even hopeless at times. Social media is constantly throwing bad news in our faces, the economy isn’t exactly smiling at everyone, and life feels like a constant rat race. But let’s be honest, is this really the worst time in history?

Our grandparents lived through world wars, our parents lived through military dictatorships, famines, diseases that had no cure, and times when basic rights were a luxury. Yet, they survived. You and I are living in a time where we have access to information, technology, and opportunities that people in the past couldn’t even imagine. We can speak to someone across the globe in seconds, learn new skills without leaving our rooms, and travel to places people used to only dream about.

Yes, times are tough, but every era has its battles. Ours is different, but it’s not the worst. Stop romanticizing the past or fearing the future. Focus on making the present better. If anything, this is the time to be alive to use the resources we have to create something meaningful, to heal from generational trauma, to break cycles. Complaining won’t change anything. Take responsibility, make changes where you can, and live your life without carrying the weight of false hopelessness.

1. To the leaders and all those individuals who believe themselves to be indispensable

I’d tell them something simple: the graveyard is full of people who thought the world couldn’t go on without them. The truth is, no matter how powerful you are, how many followers you have, or how many billions you count in your bank account, the world keeps moving with or without you.

Too many leaders get carried away with power. They forget they are in those positions because people entrusted them with leadership, not because they were born superior. Humility seems to be missing in the rooms of power these days. People forget that leadership is about service, not control.

So to every leader and self-proclaimed indispensable person, I would say: take a step back and reflect on the legacy you’re building. Will people remember you for the good you did or the damage you caused? Will they sing your praises or curse your name when you’re gone? Don’t be so proud that you destroy what you were called to build. None of us will live forever, but we can choose to live in a way that makes life better for those coming behind us.

1. To a person you trust whose partner has been unfaithful

I’d walk up to you, hold your hand, and first tell you, “I’m sorry you’re going through this.” Because honestly, betrayal cuts deep. It’s not just about the cheating, it’s about the trust you gave, the love you shared, and the dreams you built together. It’s like someone took a sledgehammer and broke everything you valued.

But after the tears, I’d tell you to remember your worth. Infidelity is never a reflection of your inadequacy, it is a reflection of their choices. You could have been perfect cooked every meal, dressed up every day, loved them with all your heart and if they were going to cheat, they would have done it anyway.

You have every right to cry, to feel angry, to ask questions. But don’t lose yourself in the process. Don’t let someone’s disloyalty make you question your value. You are more than someone’s mistake. If you choose to forgive, that’s your right. If you choose to walk away, it doesn’t make you weak, it makes you strong enough to respect yourself.

Surround yourself with people who love you genuinely. Don’t isolate yourself because of shame or fear. You deserve loyalty, respect, and peace of mind. And trust me, after the storm passes, you will look back and be grateful you didn’t let one person’s poor decision destroy your life.

1. To those who claim that artificial intelligence can wipe out humanity

Honestly, I’d tell them to calm down. Yes, AI is advancing fast, maybe too fast, but let’s not exaggerate things. AI is a tool, like every other tool humans have created. Fire was dangerous, but it cooks our food. Electricity was once feared, but now we can’t live without it. Every major invention brought fear before it brought convenience.

The problem isn’t AI, it’s human greed and misuse. Guns don’t kill people on their own, humans pull the trigger. In the same way, AI can’t wipe out humanity unless humans program it to do so or misuse it for selfish gains.

Instead of being paranoid, I’d say we should focus on responsible development. Hold tech companies accountable, regulate AI properly, and make sure it’s used to improve life, not destroy it. Fear will not solve anything. Wisdom, regulation, and common sense will. Let’s stop the doomsday predictions and focus on steering technology in a direction that benefits humanity.

If there’s anything life has taught me, it’s that sometimes you have to speak your truth. Whether people listen or not is up to them, but your peace comes from knowing you said what needed to be said. So this is what I would tell them. And honestly, maybe I needed to remind myself of these things too.

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