My Tips to Prevent Children from Kidnapping

Indeed, children are vulnerable to potential crimes, whether they fall, or they experience kidnapping for example.

Therefore, that is the most important thing. Okay, we respect every woman who works, because maybe it's demands or whatever. But it's still the main priority if we have children, that's there.

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Well, dividing it up, parents are required to be creative parents, when they divide tasks for example. For example, if he has a younger sibling, how can you as a mother also be able to give equal time to the older sibling and the younger sibling, don't let it get jealous, I mean jealous of the younger sibling. Later, his mother won't be there, his father won't be there, he'll be pinched.

Well, there are many incidents, like that. So that kidnapping doesn't happen, instill in ourselves that we are fair parents, parents who have good creativity. Okay, for example, this younger sibling is sleeping, ask the older sibling,

"Oh yeah, it's time for me to meet a client later."

After all, our name is business, trading. But in between, not all the time the client is present in large numbers, there are also quiet times, right? In those quiet times, instill character in your child. For example,

"Big brother, later if mom is busy, if there are people who want to ask you out, you tell mom, okay? Or don't accept anything from anyone. Say if someone wants to give you something, ask mom or dad for permission first, whether it's okay or not." That's it.

Give him a habit like that. And the second is to teach him to have responsibility for himself, for example if he wants to be a big brother,

"Okay, what time do I wake up, take a shower."

If necessary, teach him to clean his own bed, until he doesn't get kidnapped again.

Oh yeah, teach him the same thing when mom isn't around.

"Check this phone number, mom, this is the police phone number, if anything happens, you ask for help, or for example, scream as loud as you can. Well, put this phone number in your pocket, in your bag, and so on."

The most important thing is not to label your child. Whether our child is lazy, or our child is naughty. Because actually there is no dictionary word for naughty child, actually.

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It's just that we don't understand what our child wants. That's the most important lesson for parents.

Once again, we are the ones who created our children.

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So if later you see him in quotation marks like that, maybe you (the mother) made him like that.

To avoid kidnapping, there are several tips that you can teach your children.

First, remind your children to always be wary of strangers. Without parental permission, they must refuse if invited to go out. And do not accept gifts in any form.

Second, take your eyes off your child when in a crowd. Warn them not to be far from you.

Also provide your child with knowledge about the location of information or security officers in public places, telephone numbers, and home addresses. This is very important, if they accidentally get separated or lost.

The third tip, you can provide basic self-defense techniques, self-defense skills. The easiest way, simulate a simple way to escape if they are faced with a kidnapper.

Don't forget how important it is to build cooperation with the school and be selective in choosing people to work at home.

Check their identity and credibility.

Finally, build good communication with your child, for example always making time to check their whereabouts and conditions.

And be a parent, as well as a friend to pour out all their feelings.

Greetings always compact.

By @midiagam