Stories, learnings and reflection #08/(True love does not look at wealth)

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Tell an incident related to love, both good and bad, that you have experienced or heard (The story must be a true story, not a fictional story)

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Until today I am still really confused about what true love is and what makes someone fall in love, because until now I have never been loved by a woman because I myself have never been in a relationship.

I always have the expectation that I must be able to be responsible by having enough material to be able to make the person I love happy after we get married, I always imagine that wealth is what can make love perfect.

However, in recent times I have seen several people around me who marry only based on love, material matters and wealth can be sought together after they get married, this of course makes me feel slapped with the facts, maybe the reason I don't get a partner right now is because my imagination is too high to choose abundant wealth first before getting married, even though there are many people out there who get married without looking at material things and can still live happily.

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The impact on you and what you learn from it

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After seeing this incident, now I start to change my perspective on love, now I believe that love can come anytime without looking at someone's material or social status.

Now I no longer imagine being rich first before I can get love, but I still have to be responsible for my partner after I get married, but I also don't want to be careless to invite other people's daughters to the abyss of poverty because of love.

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I will continue to try to be a good husband for my future wife and I also want to be a great father for my children, the point is that love arises purely from the heart without looking at material or wealth, hopefully people have the right to fall in love, but responsibility remains number one.

This is my entry for the Contest: Stories, Learning and Reflections #09 which is organized by sister @alexanderpeace, I also want to invite @dekki, brother @sahmie and also brother @adi.syahreza to participate together in this contest.