Stories, Learnings and reflections #10 and (The impact of bad friends)

I woke up this morning infatuated of a certain female lover—the one that keeps my emotion yelling. I'm not the most outstanding guy on the street but I'm always favoured by their emotions. I don't just know why it keeps reoccurring, but there's a deep meaning behind that someday I'll end up growing a seed in my garden. However, before I proceed further, I would love to applaud the beautiful organizer of this weekly contest @alexanderpeace.

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Love is a beautiful thing. But not in my own measure.

Waking up with an infatuation is a clinical symbol that I'm begining to catalogue with bad friends. It's only bad friends that will edit your mindset to be garnered with lustful thoughts, both in dreams and in physical. So when this happen, there's a trace back to your catalogue. Think about the people that surrounds you—Are they positively inclined or emanating negative pressures.

If they are not positively inclined, it's certain that their aspirations may suddenly becomes your expression. Remember, this saying isn't mapped out from my today encounter: show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are. Meaning there's whole much lot to contribute to your progression, either positively or negatively. The dream may later become effective the moment I begin to succumb to the taste of that dream.

I personally refused unveiling this dream to my friends. I mean the boys. Not all of them are actually bad. But everybody have besties, the one I describe as bestie is such a bambooing one—willing to suppress my emotion with all kinds of drastic advice and influence. I can't barely pick out integral truths from his mouth, and so I prefer keeping the dream to myself and finding ways to get rid of that little atom.

Love is not infatuation.

Been driven by the big size of the woman in my dream is never the best. That's not love. So even if I choose to walk into the person in view and finally succeeded, I may end up fixing my life in a big dirts game that will lead to frustration, debation and regrets.

Love is a beautiful thing as said before, but certain encounters (friends, movies, environment) can change your émotions, make you feel defamed and salvage. I became more aroused the moment I had that dream, there was a striking sequence of signaling transfered to my believe that the dream was as a result of building up certain emotions that were derived from my everyday friends discussions.

When the everyday–discussion of your friends are captured on mining women. You'll be driven to think and do what they do to flow in such condition. So the kind of friends catalogue you build will help in defining your kind of person. Think about this.

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