Condemnation is easy, judgment is difficult.
We often talk about others, criticize in some cases, and sometimes we do not hesitate to criticize someone. Many of us find many things easy when we see something from the outside. For example, if we think someone's actions are wrong, we immediately say, Why did it happen like this? Many times, we also say that you did not do this right. But do we ever think about what could be the reason behind doing that action?
How are you all? I hope you are all very well. I am sharing this post of mine with you today about a small matter, so please read it carefully. I hope you will like it.
In our society, it is very easy to criticize, because you only have to use your eyes. Even if you do not say much with your face, we can see a person with a bad eye with our eyes and criticize them. But when it comes to judging, you have to open not only your eyes, but also your mind. This is the real judgment, going to the other person's place, understanding his situation and then giving an opinion. Seeing from the outside and the inner reality are not the same thing. So if you can judge correctly, you can also criticize.
This is not to say that you will only condemn, but you will not be able to do justice correctly at the right place. If you do not have the idea to say honestly, then you have no right to condemn anyone.
If we really want to understand someone, we need to stand in their shoes. Perhaps then we will understand that there were many reasons behind the decision made by him, the action he took. Then there will be no desire to condemn, but we will try to understand.
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In our small lives, everyone makes mistakes, everyone suffers, and everyone struggles in their own way. Because to survive, they have to bear everything. But to judge someone, you have to go inside them, feel what they are thinking, and understand. Our biggest job is to stand by them instead of condemning and pushing them away.
So finally, I will say that there is no need to condemn someone unnecessarily. If you can understand them, if you stand by them, then 10 and 10 will be good. If you cannot benefit anyone, there is no point in harming anyone.
Finally, I will say one thing, our life is short, how many mistakes we make in this short life. How many sins do we commit daily that are uncountable? So let us keep the people around us happy, keep them happy, and refrain from unnecessarily condemning and keeping them away.
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You're actually right, this pose remind me of what's happening recently in our area. Early morning of Tuesday when I went to our working place I saw people gathering and one man was begging. At first I had to stop and ask what is going on then I realize that there are all accuse the man of stealing a mobile phone, they were beating and insulting him. How do they know that he really stole the phone, that is where the problem is. According to them they said he was a in the shop before they found lost and they have been suspecting him. Does that give them the reason to say a stole it? Everyone was pointing hands but you can never judge until the truth is recovered. They call the police and the mand and the owner of the phone we are taken to the police station. Just few hours after they were taken to police station someone came out with the phone.
Now what's actually happen is that the person that took the phone noticed that the owner of the phone was drunk and he help him to take the phone from his pocket and took it to his parents.
So when the owner of the phone now recover himself and started looking for his phone, the person that took it was not around but they accuse the wrong person for student the phone
To cut the story short the boy was released but the person (the owner ) of the phone was still detained. He must pay compensation to the man.