"SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments".
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Steemit Challenge S24W3 | Powerful Debate - Love vs Arguments hosted by @tammanna in Ladies Universe
This topic is so sensitive, in this, lack of love, dedication, trust, affection, harmony between husband and wife becomes the reason for disintegration of the family due to a small misunderstanding. I want to tell you people about this through a small incident, and I also want your opinion in this.
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Venkatesh was working in his office like everyday, when his boss called him to his cabin, Venkatesh stopped his work and entered the boss's room, when he went to see, the boss was furious, as soon as he saw Venkatesh, he showed his anger and said that you have embezzled money from the firm's account, an FIR has been filed against you, you face the investigation or deposit the firm's money back. Venkatesh protested against this in strong words and said that I have not committed any embezzlement.
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The police officers bring Venkatesh to the police station for interrogation, and bombard him with hundreds of questions, poor innocent Venkatesh answers all the questions but feels very harassed in his heart.
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Venkatesh reached home at 7 pm after facing the fatigue and insults of the whole day. His wife was lying on the bed and watching a TV serial. He thought that he would get his wife's affection, love and a balm for his wounds when he went home. But when he tried to tell his wife his story, she told him to wait, my serial will end at 8:30 pm. What do you want to say then? Food is kept on the table. Go and eat. Venkatesh reluctantly ate the cold food and tried to sleep on this side of the bed. But the loud unpleasant sound of the TV was not letting him sleep. By 9 pm, his wife turned to the other side and slept after watching TV. She did not even try to know what Venkatesh wanted to say.
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The next day again Venkatesh had to face the excesses of the police officers and his boss. Venkatesh went to the office canteen in a dejected and troubled state to have tea. There he met his colleague Rekha. She was a divorced woman and did not talk much to anyone in the office. But today seeing Venkatesh sad and troubled, she came and sat on his table and started consoling him with some sympathy. Hearing her words of sympathy and consolation, tears came to Venkatesh's eyes. Then slowly Venkatesh and Rekha started meeting daily in the canteen to share their joys and sorrows with each other.
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Many other male and female employees of Venkatesh's office are discussing among themselves that Venkatesh has spent the firm's money and had fun with Rekha. That is why both of them are meeting each other a lot these days. Both of them are sitting in the canteen very lovingly these days. Someone spread these discussions and rumours to Venkatesh's wife, and adding spice to it, they also told her that both of them are going to get married.
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In the evening, tired, exhausted and worried, he reached home at 7 o'clock, his wife started shouting at him as soon as he entered the house, and asked when are you getting married to that witch, widow, Rekha, cheater, get out of my house today itself, don't show your face to me again. Poor Venkatesh was in a situation where if you cut him, there would be no blood, he did not give any answer and quietly went and lay down on the bed.
Now the fights in their house kept on increasing. Venkatesh tried his best to save himself from the situation by remaining calm but his wife became adamant due to misunderstanding. The family reached the verge of breaking up.
Here I ask you, is it Venkatesh's fault in this? Or is it his wife's fault? When no one is doing anything wrong then who should apologize? Here due to personal ego, stubbornness of not being guilty, not knowing about the misunderstanding, the house reaches the stage of breaking up.
I am sure that after reading this article of mine, maybe some intellectual Steemian friend of mine will suggest a solution to this.
And finally, I will give this answer too, I believe that women are more emotionally sensitive and if men accept their mistake then they also become emotional and want to end the fight by accepting their mistake. That is why Venkatesh apologized for his mistake for the happiness of his wife and saved his family from breaking up.
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I also want to invite my friends here @haidee @paholags @solperez and @rosselena
Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.
Sur-riti❤️
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¡Saludos amigo!🤗
La terquedad es una postura muy peligrosa que debemos hacer lo esencial para eliminarla, porque si nos enfocamos a la convivencia en el hogar, lamentablemente en algún punto todo se va a desmoronar.
Te deseo mucho éxito en la dinámica... Un fuerte abrazo💚
Thank you respected friend,
You are absolutely right, this stubbornness always comes from self-ego, if there is a small or big issue in the relationship of husband and wife or any other relationship, then the matter should be resolved through mutual talks and compromises, by prolonging this the conflict increases and the risk of breaking of the relationship increases.
With respect and honour.
Hola @sur-riti gracias por compartir tu participación con nosotros. Nos has compartido una entrada calgada de emociones, pero siento que te quedaste un poco corto al responder las preguntas que también tienen una estrecha relación con tu debate no olvides que todo es importante. Te deseo mucho éxito.
hi @fannyscobar
Yes, you are right, I have to respect the spirit of competition, that is why I have now modified my post a little bit and have mentioned at the end that respecting the tender feelings of women, Venkatesh also saved his family from disintegration by apologizing to his wife even though he did not commit any mistake.
with great respect.
Muchísimas gracias amigo. Un abrazo.
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Thanks a lot.
Hola amigo, gracias por la invitación y disculpa la demora en responder, ese es problema que muchas veces suceden en el matrimonio malos entendidos que no aclarados y pueden fácilmente arruinar un matrimonio.
Lo mejor es hablar para saber que problemas tiene la otra persona y de esa forma se corrige cualquier mal entendido.
Saludos.
There is nothing to be sorry about, I thank you for coming to my post and making such a nice comment.
Saludos amigo muchas gracias por la invitación, para empezar en tu relato si debemos buscar un culpable creo que fue la falta de comunicación, ya que el hombre llevo ese día a casa con la esperanza de tener como desahogar todo lo que sentía en cambio su esposa no mostró ningún interés en hablar solo le importa lo que ella estaba haciendo, luego se creó una historia ficticia que creo un mal entendido entre la pareja
Creo que la mujer actuó mal desde el comienzo
Thank you my dear friend,
The most important things in the relationship of husband and wife are love, trust and affection. When these things are lacking, cracks start appearing in their relationship.
With best wishes and respect.