SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments

Hello, Steemians. How are you? I hope you are fine and enjoying your moment. Welcome to another week of Powerful Debate. Here I am, participating with my Entries.
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Reveal the simple thinking of your mind and show us that in any quarrel or problem that arises between a couple, the first thing that men do is always admit their mistakes and apologize to their wives in order to keep their relationship intact. Is this right or should the one who is at greater fault in the quarrel first admit his mistakes and apologize to his partner, and try to fix the relationship?

‎I like to start with a famous quote from one of my favourite movies, Rio 2. A character named Rafael, who used to say,

Happy wife, happy life.
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‎I strongly believe this. For a man, if his wife is happy, he will be the happiest man on earth. Well, let's put belief and faith aside, focus on logic about this matter: who should say sorry first?
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‎I respect women very much. I saw my mother, my sister, and my wife; they are doing a great thing to make our lives happy. I have many female friends, and I know how dedicated they are to keeping their families happy. With all the observations I have had throughout my life, I have observed that women are soft-hearted, easily manipulated, and listen to their hearts more than their brains. They are more emotional than a man. On the other hand, men are less emotional, more logical. Man also has an ego, emotion, and anger, but that does not mean they should show this to their women.
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‎For that reason, I believe that when a quarrel moment or misunderstanding happens, women become more emotional than a man. They are aware of their mistakes, but they expect their man will come to her, say sorry, and confront her. I am also like others who think that men should say sorry first.
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Where many people think that in a fight, the husband should be the first to say sorry and their wives should be the first to resolve the conflict and mend the relationship. Do you agree with this view or do you think it is different in your case? Express your own feelings.

Just like I said, Men should come first to say sorry. In a married relationship, if a wife does not betray her partner, there is no reason for a man to show his ego or think their ego is bigger than the relationship. As Rafael said, if your wife is happy, you will be happy. The more a man admits his fault, the more love he will receive from his wife. I don't see any alternative to that.
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‎Admitting someone's fault and asking for forgiveness is a very sweet thing. This is the key to a Happy Family. I believe that in all families that maintain a healthy relationship, after a misunderstanding or argument, both husband and wife admit their mistake and ask for forgiveness. This is what keeps a family happy. This is what makes a relationship stronger.
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However, in this case, would it be wise for both the husband and wife to admit their mistakes and apologize to each other in order to preserve their relationship, or would it be wiser to continue to maintain their egos and continue to cause unrest in the family day after day? Which do you think is right?

Ego and anger never bring good things into someone's life. No matter whether it is a marital relationship or another relationship, it always downgrades the relationship. A man with less Ego and less anger always stays happy. Practicing keeping ego is a bad thing. We should let go of our ego.

I would like to invite @impersonal, @zulbahri, and @kibreay001 to participate in this challenge.