"SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments".

Hello everyone, good morning to you all and welcome back to my blog.

Pexel

We use to have this Neighbor that got newly married in our Compound back then. Anytime they quarrel, the wife would carry her bags and go back to her Father's house. She would stay there until the husband comes and beg her and then they would return together. The husband was always the one apologizing Despite who was at fault.

This continued until the man got tired. On one scenario, they quarrel again and as usual she packed her Luggages and went back to her Parents house. The husband didn't bother to come pick her and like joke, she stayed in her Parents house for 2 years, all her pleas to her husband to take her back fell on deaf ears. It took the intervention of her Parents and the people her Husband held in high esteem to beg her Husband before he took her back.

Reveal the simple thinking of your mind and show us that in any quarrel or problem that arises between a couple, the first thing that men do is always admit their mistakes and apologize to their wives in order to keep their relationship intact. Is this right or should the one who is at greater fault in the quarrel first admit his mistakes and apologize to his partner and try to fix the relationship?

This is very wrong for a man to always be the one apologizing for every quarrel. It's not just healthy for the marriage because it might lead to the man bearing grudges against the wife.It can also lead to the Wife always gaslighting the Husband.

Pexel

Where many people think that in a fight, the husband should be the first to say sorry and their wives should be the first to resolve the conflict and mend the relationship. Do you agree with this view or do you think it is different in your case? Express your own feelings.

We human are imperfect, we're bound to make mistakes and because of this, no marriage is perfect, but the most important thing is in accepting our mistakes and apologizing.

To me, I feel it's very wrong for a man to be the one apologizing always whenever a couple have a fight. The two people in a relationship should understand each other very well, they should understand that nobody is above saying sorry,
Apologizing is an important aspect of any relationship or marriage. The person who caused the conflict should be the one to apologize and it's not just about apologizing, it's about taking responsibility for one's actions and working towards mending the relationship.

Pexel

However, in this case, would it be wise for both the husband and wife to admit their mistakes and apologize to each other in order to preserve their relationship, or would it be wiser to continue to maintain their egos and continue to cause unrest in the family day after day? Which do you think is right?

Marriage is a collective effort between the Husband and wife. It is not the duty of the husband to be the one to initiate Apology, rather the person who is as fault should be the one seeking for forgiveness. In a situation whereby both the husband and wife are at fault, then they should ask each other for forgiveness.

It involves recognizing that you have shortcomings and that your spouse might have a valid point of view, despite your knowledge and level in Life.

Understanding is another attribute that helps Couples to understand their partners point of view, pain, feeling and emotions. It helps couples to understand each other well.

Taking responsibility for one's actions, it involves owing up to your fault and seeking for forgiveness.

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