SLC-S24/W1 - Tangled Emotion | The Powerful Conversation".
Husband and wife living together requires patience and tolerance, in this case I choose Tasks of powerful Debate on wife& Husband.
Mr John who was happily married he doesn't joke with his wife, what a sudden change of behavior from Mr John. He started keeping late nights.
Oneday, the wife decided to check her husband's phone massages ,Boom strange massages who are assumed to be ladies filled Mr John's phone she was was curious to know by dialing one of the numbers, luckily a lady picked and responded Hello babe are you still coming ? at that point John's wife concluded that the husband was having an affair with other ladies.
Surprisedly, she didn't react as she blamed herself for the husband changed behavior.
Tasks of Powerful Debate on Wife & Husband
In your opinion, who showed greater emotional maturity during the conversation, and what made you feel that way? Was it honest, self-control, empathy, or something else. (1.5 Mark)
John's wife showed great sense of humor, she wasn't mad at the husband rather she was thinking where she offended the husband that warranted him to start having an affair with other ladies. I felt this way because women of this days will angrily harass their husband for having an affair with other ladies, but this woman controlled her emotions as hurtful as cheating can be in marriage she controlled herself which show how matured she is. In this case self-control was boldly seen.
Do you believe that emotional cheating can cause as much or even deeper damage than physical cheating? Where do you think the true betrayal begins: in the heart or the body? (1 Mark)
Cheating like I said can be very disturbing in relationship or marriage be it emotionally or physical but I believe the worst of it is emotional cheating, this one can kill when any party gets to know because the damage cannot be reversed. If someone is cheated emotionally it can result to instabilities .
True betrayal begins with the heart, the Bible even said out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks , because before we can carry out anything it must be concived through the heart. For instance, if a man is trying to cheat he will start seeing negative reasons from the wife,he will proceed to looking for a lady from there the cheating will commence. So a true betrayal begins with the heart.
What are some subtle yet powerful signs that emotional distance is growing between partners? Can you spot these red flags before it’s too late? (1 Mark)
There are numerous powerful signs that show emotional distance is growing between partners.
- No playful moments. One partner will be forming too serious, they no longer have time to crack jokes or play as usual.
- Living like stranger. There's no usual discussions like partners rather they feel lonely even when living together.
- Miss understanding. There's no bond ,they now live like cat and dog, misinterpreting one another's joke.
- Lack of communication. There's no longer mutual communication,only communicate when critically necessary.
With these points I mentioned, it can be obvious to identify red flags before it's late.
Can love truly survive a deep betrayal? What do you really need to rebuild and reconnect with broken trust? (1 Mark)
Surviving a deep betrayal depends on individual, there are people who can easily scale through deep pain while it takes time for some to heal . For people to survive a deep betrayal it takes gradual process and rebuilding of loss trust. The betrayer can sincerely accept his or her actions and change wholeheartedly.
The things I need to rebuild and reconnect with broken trust.
I must see sincere changes from the person.
I must know that the person has acknowledged his or her mistakes before giving them my trust again.
The person must openly tell me his /her plans after I reconnect or rebuild my trust.
I must see that the person is patient with me until the trust is rebuilt.
If you were a marriage consultant, What advice would you give to couples in the sheath of heart break and healing?? Speak from wisdom, experience, or even personal pain. (1.5 Marks))
As a consultant I will speak from wisdom and I will tell the couples to .
Spending time with things that makes them happy. This is the time couples who are suffering from heart break should involve in any thing that makes them happy in order to heal faster. Maybe visiting friends ,family members or even going on shopping.
It is not time to pressure each other unnecessarily, hence it can trigger the emotions therefore they should find time help each other .
It also important to respect each other's choice and boundaries at this healing time.
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