Small arguments or miscommunications between husband and wife are common in every household. Small things like food money or even a few hurtful words can cause conflict. People usually say that in order to keep the relationship intact the spouse should apologize first. It is expected of him to be composed and patient. However is it justifiable that men are the only ones that initiate contact? Apologies do not diminish respect. It demonstrates concern and appreciation for your relationship.

In actuality each partner in a partnership bears equal responsibility. The one who committed the larger error should apologize first in a fight. Someone must be mature and take the initiative even if both are incorrect. Things will remain resentful if both parties wait for the other to apologize. Even if you're correct there are situations when apologizing first strengthens the link and gives tranquility. In any home love is more significant than ego.

When both partners think with love rather than pride every household functions more smoothly. You will never put off making amends if you genuinely care about your partner. If small misunderstandings are not cleared up they might develop into major issues. Therefore it is prudent for anyone who recognizes their error to take action initially. Maintaining harmony at home is more important than whether it's the husband or the wife. Love respect and a small amount of sacrifice on both sides are the foundation of a happy home.

After a fight it's common in households for the spouse to apologize first. Others believe that the woman ought to initiate action and resolve the issue. However things are a little different for me. I'm from a Pakhtoon household and men are typically viewed as more significant and powerful in our society. Because of this way of thinking the man dislikes to acknowledge when he is mistaken. Rather he anticipates that the wife will first apologize and forget everything.

In our culture guys are taught from an early age that expressing emotion or apologizing is a sign of weakness. For this reason even when they are at fault many spouses choose to remain silent. In contrast the woman is supposed to maintain composure adapt and maintain harmony at all times. Many women weep in private bear the suffering and yet initiate the process of making things better. Although it is unfair this is a regular occurrence in our homes.

In my opinion a husband and wife ought to show each other the same respect. Regardless of who is at fault the first thing a man or woman should do is apologize. When only one person puts out effort love cannot endure. Relationships in the modern era require mutual understanding. Love should always come before ego. Admitting mistakes doesn't make people less; rather it makes them more compassionate wise and kind. This is something we must instill in our kids if we want happy households.

In any kind of relationship it is preferable for both spouses to own up to their faults and express regret to one another. This keeps the house peaceful. The love gradually begins to wane if just one partner consistently adapts while the other continues to act egotistical. The goal of marriage is to live together in happiness not to win battles. Apologies do not diminish anyone. It demonstrates your deep concern for one another and your house. A house is genuinely tranquil when there is mutual respect and understanding.

However it will just lead to further arguments and misery if both parties continue to maintain their egos and refuse to apologize. Silent days pass hearts ache and even minor difficulties grow into major ones. Nobody is content in such a setting. Children suffer when they witness their parents' unhappiness. Therefore it is wise to be humble forgive easily and preserve the love and happiness in the family rather than allowing ego to rule.