"SLC-S24/W6 - Powerful Debate - Yes or no/pros and cons"
ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
Relationships are an extremely important matter, and within these relationships, there remains one issue, which is betrayal. One can establish a good relationship between both, while the other can destroy the relationship. Just as there is good and bad among people, there is also good and bad within beauty. Beauty is merely an external matter, but true evaluation of good and bad comes from the heart. Anyway, I have created this tutorial based on this small matter, and I will try to work on what I have learned, Insha'Allah.
A: Craft a debate or a real life story to buttress you point.
Can any relationship survive after betrayal and abuse? No.
No relationship can survive after betrayal and abuse; the foundation for a relationship to last is trust. When there is no trust in a relationship, one person will betray the other, and that will no longer be a relationship. If the foundation of a relationship weakens, hatred will arise within it, and there will be no affection, not even a little mercy. I believe that one of the greatest crimes in the world is betrayal; I have faced betrayal many times, and this feeling is so painful that I have experienced panic attacks multiple times.
In front of my eyes, a sister was betrayed very badly by her husband. At that time, I was probably 14 years old. A distant relative sister sent her husband abroad with her own savings. That sister had two children, and thinking about their bright future, she sent her husband abroad for a job. For a few months, their relationship was quite good; her husband used to send a good amount of money to the family monthly. However, gradually that sister realized that her husband’s behavior was changing. He was no longer responsible and caring for the family as before. It is not an easy task to raise two children alone without any partner.
And at the same time, if the partner gradually starts to behave rudely, then the situation becomes even more terrifying. The husband's behavior starts to seem suspicious to the wife, and she begins to investigate. As she investigates, she discovers things she could have never imagined. She found out that her husband had become involved in an extramarital affair without her knowledge, which mentally devastated her. A woman expects loyalty from her life partner, but when the partner fails in this, it is truly heartbreaking. Love is never one-sided; both parties in a relationship have to put in effort.
My sister had trusted her husband and sent him all her gold jewelry and savings abroad in hopes of a beautiful future, but her husband betrayed her, went abroad with her money, and forgot about his wife and children while getting involved with another woman. Unable to bear the pain of this betrayal, she suffered a stroke and is still paralyzed. Later, she divorced her husband, who is now living quite well without any remorse. However, the woman is going through extreme poverty and struggling with the children.
B: Elaborate on the PROS (advantages) and CONS (disadvantages) of Trust and loyalty in a relationship.
The advantages and disadvantages of trust and loyalty in a relationship.
Trust and loyalty are important in a relationship; it survives on mutual trust, empathy, respect, and loyalty. If the life partner is trustworthy, upholds the value of trust, appreciates opinions, and gives importance to them, then it truly beautifies life.
However, the disadvantage is blind trust; if one partner has blind trust in the other and the partner betrays that trust, it is very hard and painful to accept. At the same time, if one partner imposes their own preferences forcefully, then one may lose oneself, making it difficult to live freely and normally in life.
To keep a relationship beautiful, both must uphold the value of trust; one partner's opinion should not be imposed on the other, and both should respect each other's opinions.
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