SLC-S24/W2 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Capability".

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Dear friends, love is a very important thing, especially love for children. However, in today's society, there is a neglect of a responsibility, such as if the mother loves, there is no love of the father, the father and there is no love, but there is a mother's love or many such limitations are seen. So let's discuss this topic and have a debate.

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Create the debate of your thoughts showing the weight of two worlds, the split of mother's mind. Should mothers be judged for pursuing their careers or dreams?

Every person has their own dreams, hopes, wishes, being parents does not mean sacrificing their dreams. However, our society imposes only a burden on parents to raise a child, society imposes more responsibility on a mother than a father, a woman will be at home. She will cook, serve her husband, look after her children, and sacrifice her dreams for the bright future of her children. Yes, it is true that the burden of raising the child is also on the father,

_{It is the responsibility of both parents to raise their children.}

it is important to earn for the future of the child, but why does society impose more burden on the mother. It is only the responsibility of the mother to take care of everything from giving birth to a child, but a mother has many complications including hormonal changes, mood swings, postpartum period, physical illness while giving birth to a child. Then the mother needs family support, support from her partner, love, care.

The pregnancy period is a very long time, about nine to ten months, and it is not very easy. Society forgets that a mother is also a human being, she has feelings, dreams and desires. If we talk about our country, in most cases in Bangladesh, a girl's teenage is married, because society, family thinks of her as a burden, in view of this, the dream of that girl's life remains only a dream, career is very few girls. When a girl will get married, when she will have a child, everything is fixed by society. A child can never be a burden to a mother,

But then a mother thinks of her child as a curse for her life when she falls into various adversities, maybe sometimes the mother regrets, there are many mothers in Bangladesh who are single mothers, but both parents are responsible for raising the child, but the father is reluctant to fulfill the responsibility of the child or for some reason separation, thus the child lives an abnormal life. And an unemployed mother faces adversity with that child. But here the child is not at fault, it's all society's fault. No man, male or female, no matter how mother or father he is, has the right to fulfill his dreams.

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Is a mother who focuses on her work life and neglects the responsibility of her children, can she still be called a "perfect mom"? "They said a good mother never puts herself first but she wondered who would tell her daughter that her dreams mattered too?

A mother who pays attention to her career and neglects to fulfill the responsibilities of her children is not a good mother, it is right and I agree with it because no child comes to the world of her own will, parents have a role in the birth of a child, their plan, the plan to raise the child, the plan to give birth to the child and then the child should be born.

_{Mothers should plan properly before giving birth}

If a mother thinks that she will fulfill her dream and become a mother at the same time, then she has to plan herself, she has to think about whether she can manage two things at the same time, whether the people around her will support her and most importantly whether her partner will support her. Considering all this, a woman has to manage both her career and motherhood.
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As a woman is important to her own dreams, it is also important that every girl wants to be a mother in her life, considering all aspects, a woman has to make the most important decision in her life.

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What defines a good mother? A mother who commits all her life to her children, raising them, or a mother who works day and night to build a better future for her children while holding on to her dreams?

No mother in the world is bad, her parents are the best parents in the world to the child. No matter how wrong the parents do, at one time the child forgives his parents, no matter how much the parents remain a soft corner. The biggest thing is that no parent in the world wants to give their child a good life. If I talk about my parents, then they tried their best for me so that I can have a good life. As a Bangladeshi, I have seen countless parents who have sacrificed life's big dreams for their children.

Again, I have seen many parents who have fulfilled their dreams as well as given the best of their lives for their children. Who do I think is a bad parent here?? Fulfilling a dream is not a crime or a terrible sin to give priority to one's desire. When a couple decides they are eligible to be parents now, they must not make any wrong decisions, and must not make decisions that will affect their children's future in a bad way.

_{I will invite some of my friends to participate in this contest. Those who will read this post and leave comments. I would love that they will also participate in this contest. @ulfatulrahmah @karianaporras @wilmer1988 and @chant}

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