"SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments".

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Assalamu Alaikum friends. Wishing everyone good health. Hope you all are well. By God's grace I am fine too. Today I am here to participate in a wonderful learning competition organized by our teacher @tammanna. The Topic of this contest is "SLC-S24/W3 - Powerful Debate | Love & Arguments". So this is a very important competition where we can learn some important things. Below are some questions that I will answer correctly. I have chosen the following two topics from the two topics. So let's get started.

Topic 2 : Who should give more importance to a child's education, the father or the mother, or should both be given equal importance?

A little child who is the darling and the apple of his eye of his family has just started school and has just entered the first phase of his education. The education life is very new for him and his family also has to accept those things in a new way.

But it will take some time for the little child and his family to get used to these new things. But every day when the father comes home from work, he has no time to make his son study. Even if his son goes to him,If he wants to get a solution for any study issue, then sometimes his father gets annoyed and asks him to leave and asks him to find a solution from his mother or from private tutorial tuition.

This makes his mother very sad and he feels that he has taken the responsibility of his son's studies along with fulfilling all his responsibilities throughout the day. From the morning, he takes his son to school and then gives time to tuition. Also, when he comes home, his mother always helps him in completing all the tasks.But in this case, when the child is the property of both the father and the mother, why should the responsibility of education fall solely on the mother?

In this case, why should the father not play any role and sometimes why should the father not pay attention to his child in this regard? The father's indifference towards the child's education is not very good for the family and the child because he is receiving all kinds of education from the mother but is not getting any kind of education from the father, which will create a backlash.

Since I am a child myself, I believe that a child is the mirror of a family, the future of a society and the potential of a nation. To properly raise it, it is not just about good clothes or food, but also moral, emotional and educational guidance that makes a child a complete human being. But the question is whose responsibility is this? Only the mother? Only the father? Or both equally? Let's go deeper.

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Among the mixed reactions of parents, is it only the mother's responsibility to educate the child? The father has no responsibility, and if the fathers avoid responsibility in this regard, So what kind of mentality can be developed towards those children?

The role of parents is very important at every stage of a child's growth. The importance of parents in our lives is immense because they are our mentors and guides. However, there has long been a common idea in our society that the responsibility of education is the exclusive right of the mother. Many times, fathers think that teaching their child to study or looking after his education is only the mother's job. But this idea can actually be very harmful for the child.

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If fathers avoid this responsibility, then a kind of bias and discrimination is first created in the child's mind. In this way, the father only works outside and has no interest in my studies or thoughts. In this, the child pushes the father away mentally and his perspective on education and life remains incomplete. Children also expect inspiration and sympathy from their father. Children who grow up only under the care and supervision of their mother may receive sincere love, but due to the lack of fatherly love and guidance, they often become self-confident or hesitant.

Where the responsibility of the family's success lies with the father and the father has to earn an income to handle all the details of the family, due to which the father cannot give enough time to the family and his child, is it right? Or if the father cannot take the responsibility of his child's education while earning money, is it right? What do you mean by that?

We are children now but from a father's perspective I can understand those feelings. Of course the responsibility of keeping the family's financial wheels running usually lies with the father. This is undoubtedly an important and hard-working job. But if he distances himself from the educational guidance of his children because of this, it is not right. My own father also spends a lot of time and works hard but he is very responsible towards us.

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A child's education is not limited to books alone. It is a combination of values, perspectives and motivations that play an effective role in shaping the personality of the child. Considering earning money as the only responsibility creates a one-sided balance in the family. If a father spends even 15-20 minutes after work in the evening to check on the child's studies, that time leaves a lasting impression on the child. The combined enthusiasm of both parents makes a child confident and balanced.

In this question, I would like to say that it is not right to assume that a father has completed his responsibilities just by earning money. Rather, when a child sees that his father is taking time for him, listening to questions, and giving opinions, then the child's thinking and consciousness takes on a new form. He understands how important he is.

What is the most important thing in a child's education? Both parents should provide them with good education and study on time. In this case, can the child's education and progress improve? Or if the father does not pay attention to education, can the child achieve much more success in education only through the mother's education?

From childhood, only education is handled in our brains as an important matter. The most important thing in a child's education is proper guidance, empathy and emotional support. If these three elements come from the family, then the child automatically becomes interested in education. However, those whose parents are educated are very lucky people.

The presence of both father and mother is helpful in the mental development of the child. Mother is usually caring, patient and is close to the child in daily studies. But the presence of the father makes education more responsible and motivating. If a father ever sits his child with a book in his hand and says, let's do some math together, then that moment will be a special memory in the child's life. I have such memories in my own life too.

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If the educational life progresses only depending on the mother, then education may seem like a kind of exclusive or obligatory responsibility to the child. But if the father stands by with time, the children transform it into joy. They learn that acquiring knowledge is a family value.

The real progress of a child is possible only when both parents give their time, love and guidance from their position. The efforts of one side only create imperfection and joint efforts create a brave and well-educated generation of the future. However, in this contest we will be able to understand our own conscience. So this is a very nice contest, I participated with pleasure, I hope you all liked it.

So I am Inviting my lovely Steemian friends @suboohi, @ulfatulrahmah, @kouba01, @selina1, @edgargonzalez to Participate in this Competition.

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