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Steemian friends, I hope you are all doing well, today I will participate in the debate competition of the third week of the twenty-fourth session of the Steem Challenge. Two topics have been given in this challenge, I liked both topics very much. At first, I wanted to participate in the first topic, but since I am a father of three children, I chose the second topic, because it is very important for each of us to raise our children as human beings.

Cover photo, Me with my three sons

Today's children are the future of tomorrow. If we can raise our children to be good human beings under proper supervision and educate them well, then their future will be bright and the country will also prosper. If every parent takes proper care of their child and gives importance to their child's education, then at least one child will be well educated, and the country, the nation, and even the entire world will be peaceful.

Topic 2 :

Who should give more importance to a child's education, the father or the mother, or should both be given equal importance?

Both parents should give equal importance to the child's education. In no case should one parent be given the full responsibility of the child's education. No parent can provide a complete education to their child alone. If both parents take the responsibility of the child's education and seriously try to give the child the right education, the quality of the child's education will improve. The child will be able to achieve his education in a very good way.

When the child sees the importance of both parents towards him, he will be much more focused on his education. If only one parent is given the responsibility and the other neglects it, then it will have a different impact on the child, which can be a big obstacle to the child's education. Therefore, both parents need to give importance to the child's education, and both need to take the responsibility of teaching the child.

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Among the mixed reactions of parents, is it only the mother's responsibility to educate the child? The father has no responsibility, and if the fathers avoid responsibility in this regard, So what kind of mentality can be developed towards those children?

As I said before, the responsibility of educating a child is not only the mother's, the father can never avoid the responsibility of educating a child. If the father avoids the responsibility of educating a child, the mentality that will be created in the child can be harmful and long-term. Insecurity and lack of confidence will appear in the child. If the father avoids his responsibility towards the child, the child will think that I am not important to my father, then he will start thinking less about his own worth.

If the father avoids the responsibility of educating a child, a mentality of avoiding his own responsibility will be created in the child. He will think that being a man means avoiding responsibility. This attitude is a very harmful aspect for the child's future. If the mother continues to fulfill the responsibility of educating the child alone, the child's love for the mother will increase and anger towards the father will increase, which can eventually cause the family to break up.

In addition to developing aversion to the father, the child will develop the attitude that "I had no one." If the child continues to grow up with this attitude, one day, when he wants to overcome this loneliness, he will start associating with various bad people, and may even get involved in various crimes. This will cause great harm to him. If the father avoids the responsibility of educating the child, then the child will develop various other such mindsets, which are much more harmful to the child.

Where the responsibility of the family's success lies with the father and the father has to earn an income to handle all the details of the family, due to which the father cannot give enough time to the family and his child, is it right? Or if the father cannot take the responsibility of his child's education while earning money, is it right? What do you mean by that?

This is a very complex and difficult question. Although this question is complex, it has a lot in common with reality. Many families have conflicts over this issue. Since the father is responsible for the success of the family and takes care of all the details of the family, and for this he has to earn an income and to earn an income, most of the time he has to work outside. It should be remembered here that when the father works outside, he is avoiding the family or is taking the responsibility of educating the child ahead of him. It would be wrong to think that this is because even though he may seem to be avoiding it from the outside, internally, this work is a means of loving and taking responsibility for the family and children.

A father's inability to devote time to educating his child after working hard to earn money is not his unwillingness, but rather a victim of circumstances. Although a father, after taking out time just to earn money, needs to give importance to his child even for a short time a day, such as sitting next to the child for 10 minutes a day and checking on his studies, sitting at the dinner table and checking on his child's school, there are many other things that a father can do if he wishes. This little time given by the father will play a big role in the child's education.

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What is the most important thing in a child's education? Both parents should provide them with good education and study on time. In this case, can the child's education and progress improve? Or if the father does not pay attention to education, can the child achieve much more success in education only through the mother's education?

The most important thing in a child's education is love and attention, a child first begins his education by seeing and feeling, when the child sees the love of his parents and sees the attention of his parents towards him, then that child tries to learn what his parents teach him, at that time if he sees something different in his father, the child tries to learn that.

Both parents should give their child a good education and study, when the child gets a good education from the beginning of life, his educational progress will improve a lot, and his future will be bright, our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, Give your children knowledge because they have been created for the future. That is why both parents should try to give their children a good education.

In some cases, it is seen that the father is away from home for his own income and cannot devote time to the child's education. In such a case, it becomes a big challenge for the mother. The absence of the father creates a lack in the child, which cannot be easily filled. Although some mothers take up this challenge and play a big role in the success of the child, in most cases, the absence of the father becomes a big obstacle to the child's success. Of course, both parents need to take responsibility and pay serious attention to ensure the success of the child and a bright future.

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Thanks everyone for reading my post today.