"SLC-S24/W2 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Capability".

Hi friends.. How are you doing today? Am sure you've been doing great.. It's another week of the Steemit Challenge Debate and am so happy to take part in it. Today, I will sharing with you on the topic captioned "Love Vs Capability". From this post, I assure you that you will get to learn a lot from it. Just read on;

Is love essential to keeping a relationship healthy, or can loyalty and understanding hold a relationship for a lifetime?

Love can be important in a relationship, but supporting it with other components like loyalty, trust, etc for a healthy and sustainable partnership can be more helpful. Relationships doesn't involve only love, but also requires both partners' decisions, efforts, loyalty, understanding, and willingness. Love alone can't be enough in a relationship. In fact, love, loyalty, respect, trust, care, etc are important ingredients in good, understanding and lifetime relationship.

Love and loyalty are necessary to maintain and hold long lasting relationships. Love without loyalty is deeper than a person coming or going. Love without loyalty makes people to betray you in a relationship despite their feelings. Loyalty is so important because is the essential part of building strong, healthy, and positive relationships in our lives, and having positive relationships means having better physical and mental health. Loyalty builds love and trust, thereby ensuring partners have each other's backs. Ultimately, Loyalty is one of the purest expressions of love, trust, and respect.

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What are your thoughts about being seen as the "perfect couple" for outsiders but truly having no feelings for each other and having a huge emotional distance?

My thought on this is that showing to be a perfect couple for the outsiders to see but truly doesn't have any feelings for each other is a huge emotional disaster. This only can scatter the relationship because there's no feelings or emotions for each other. This is what actually happens on social medias. Most couples that flaunts their marriage on social media as being the perfect couples ever tends to have no feelings,care, love, or support from each other outside the media platforms. Only this can crash a relationship because there's no sincerity, trust, care, feelings, and emotions for each other. Also, when there's an emotional distance between the couples who claims to be perfect online, the marriage tends to slowly wade off because the feelings are not mutual.

Is it wiser to hold on to peace or to chase what sets the heart on fire?

The wisdom of holding onto peace versus chasing what sets the heart on fire is a deeply personal question, with no single right answer. This statement depends on what brings you to fulfillment, well-being, and what level of risk and change you're willing to embrace. Below here is a detailed breakdown of this statement;

• Holding onto Peace: The word Peace means a sense of calm, security, and satisfaction
Peace has always been a valuable antidote to relief the stresses and uncertainties of life. A peaceful life gives priorities in nurturing our connections with people we love and fostering a sense of harmony and love within one's society and environment. Also, Choosing peace can helps to let go of things that cause turmoil, grudges, anger, rentlessness,etc.

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• Chasing What Sets the Heart on Fire: When one is truly passionate and pressured about something, it ignites their inner fire, motivate them to pursue their goals not minding what people have to say. When you step outside your comfort zone and start to pursue your passion and dreams, it significantly leads to personal growth, new skills, and a deeper sense of purpose. Also, try to consider what truly brings you joy and what kind of life you have envisioned for yourself. Life is a journey, and it's often filled with ups and downs, challenges and triumphs.

So, when you chase your what sets your heart on fire, you should focus on the process of growth, learning, allow yourself to adapt, and evolve along the way. So, my key point here is holding onto peace is very essential in life and also chasing your passions and what ignites your heart is very crucial. Just be mindful of your own needs, values, and choose the path that best aligns with your vision of a fulfilling and meaningful life.

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Here comes the end of my wonderful post today.. Am pretty sure you've learnt a lot from here. I specially invite my friends @nemerem01 @entity01 @mhizta to join this ongoing interesting contest.. Thank you all for your time.. The pleasure is mine..!!🤗

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