"SLC-S24/W4 - Powerful Debate | Deal or No Deal".

Hello Dear Friends 👋

Assalamu Alaikum friends, I begin in the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful. I am here to serve you once again with a new post. How are you friends? I hope all my fellows are well and living a peaceful and happy life. I thank the Lord of the universe, by whose command this universe continues to move. I hope you are all healthy and busy doing good in your lives. Today I am going to participate in the learning challenge SLC-S24/W4 - Powerfull Debate | Deal or No Deal. Who organized by @ruthjoe in Ladies Universe Community. I select the topic Do you think it is ideal for financial burden of a home to be managed by the husband alone. Explain your answer by choosing Deal or No Deal)

Let me give you an example that really touched my heart.

This story is about my salon teacher, who was a very kind-hearted and understanding married woman. Her husband had a mobile phone and easyload shop and, Masha Allah, his business was doing very well. This easily covered their household expenses. Because the woman was educated and had applied for a job before marriage, from where her letter came, and now she could job.

So she told her husband that she wanted to job if he would allow her. Her husband said, "No, women in our family do not jobs and men do not eat women's earnings." She tried to convince her husband a lot, but he didn't agree to her job. Because her husband did not agree to her job, she lost the job. But when her husband's elder brother allowed his wife to job, her husband's sister-in-law started working as a nurse in the hospital.

The teacher in Salon had three children and her children were studying in a private school whose fees were very high and now their expenses had increased a lot and my teacher's husband's shop had closed and her husband had accumulated a lot of debt. One day, she again gently explained to her husband that she wanted to build her own parlor. Because she had already taken a makeup course, she now wanted to create a salon in her home

Her husband understood her point. Then she opened her own salon in her home and started doing makeup. She started doing her job very honestly and self confidence. Gradually, their customers started coming, their trust in them started growing, and the number of customers started increasing. She earned a lot of respect and fame in this work and thus she helped her husband meet the household expenses. I call her a teacher because I am now learning makeup from her, and thank God, she is a very good makeup artist.

Do you think it is ideal for financial burden of a home to be managed by the husband alone.(Explain your answer by choosing Deal or No Deal)

NO DEAL ! 🤝
I have always seen that the burden on one men's shoulders is to meet the expenses of the entire family. And I have always also heard that the man is the head of the household and is responsible for providing for the family. And that a man feeds the entire family So today I am going to completely deny this because it is completely unfair to a man in society. In the old days, a man had the burden of meeting the financial expenses of the family and all the members.

He earned alone and ran the household as best he could. In today's era, inflation has also become very high and there are very few sources of income. After all, what should a man do? He should provide for the needs of his wife and children, give them a good education, and along with that, he should also take care of their food and drink. In fact, one man cannot meet all these expenses and responsibilities.

Doesn't he get worried? Doesn't he think how can I carry all the burden alone, how can I fulfill all the responsibilities? After all, he is also a human being. Amidst all these responsibilities, doesn't he have a life of his own? He should forget to take care of himself, ignore his own life. Isn't this unfair? This is not right at all, this is abuse. Because now is the modern era, people's thinking has changed a lot. Today is the era of education and the era of educated people in whose eyes men and women are equal.

Those who think this that a happy family will only be created if both men and women in the family, i.e. husband and wife, earn money. If both husband and wife work together and earn money, then the household expenses will be met.Just as a car cannot run without four wheels, a home and family cannot run without the income of two people. This is absolutely true and I agree that in this era of inflation, a single person cannot meet all the household expenses unless someone else supports him.

When husband and wife work together and run the family system, their family thrives and the love and compassion between husband and wife grow and they realize each other. A responsible husband and wife always work together and run the family system because if they don't work together, their family system won't work. When a responsible man extends his hand to run his family system, the woman should also hold her husband's hand and together they should run their family system because if they work together, their family system will run.

The woman believes when her husband had told her parents at the time of marriage that he would fulfill all her needs and take care of her, why should I work? This is completely wrong. In today's era of inflation, a woman should extend her husband's hand and help him, because if both husband and wife work together, the family system can run in the best way.

In other words, it is not just men's job to handle the financial burden of the household, but women also have an equal right to it. A woman should not waste her husband's earned wealth or squander it in vain. Do not waste your husband's earned wealth on frivolous things, but rather use this money to meet the needs of the home and to buy things that his family needs.

Conclusion : The purpose of all my discussion is that running and managing all the financial burdens of the household is not only the responsibility of the man, but the woman also has an equal right to it. When both the man and the woman fulfill their responsibilities together, the family will progress and there will be love, compassion and harmony between the two. Because a responsible man and woman always bring honor to their family.

I will invite my friends to join this contest: @suboohi @ahsansharif @jyoti-thelight @steemchiller @ulfatulrahmah @afzalqamar @sualeha

Date 15-05-2025

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@iqrabatool34✍️